10 Pisces Man Red Flags (Learn To Spot Them)

Being with a Pisces man can be your dream come true or your worst nightmare. Pisces men can be perfect partners. But if he is immature, look out!

A wounded Pisces man who hasn’t dealt with his insecurities can bring drama and heartbreak. You must understand the red flags to know if your Pisces man will bring disaster.

Your Pisces man shows signs he is not authentic. His sign brings compassion but is also associated with illusions. If he shows the common red flags, your Pisces will bring trouble.

1. Escapism

Pisces men are known for their imaginations. They are creative and use their rich fantasies to create art and music. But they can also use their creativity to undermine a relationship.

If your Pisces man is immature and irresponsible, he channels his creativity toward escapism. You can tell if a Pisces man is not ready for a relationship when he avoids responsibility for conflicts.

A Pisces man prone to escapism brings drama into your life. You’ll never get him to own up to his behavior. He shuts down when he doesn’t get his way. Though he may not have a temper tantrum, his avoidance is as damaging.

You can’t have a serious relationship with a Pisces man who refuses to deal with reality. If he shows you this red flag, be careful. Your Pisces love interest retreats into fantasy or use denial to avoid dealing with problems.

He may drink too much or use drugs to alter his mind and escape from conflicts. He may tune out his surroundings and retreat into daydreams. He may use video games, work, hobbies, or any other outlet to ignore reality.

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2. Excessive Drinking

Your Pisces man may overindulge to escape from conflicts he doesn’t want to face. But as the sign of toxicity and illusions, he is prone to problem drinking and addictions.

His drinking becomes a problem if he goes to extremes too often. A Pisces who drinks excessively to celebrate, to hide, or because he is bored is showing you a red flag.

Be cautious when indulging a Pisces man’s love of alcohol or other mind-altering substances. He easily crosses the line into addiction. His drinking can exacerbate other problems and distracts him from dealing with issues in the relationship.

Will a Pisces man chase you? A man born under this sign who is in love with you chases you to show he’s committed to you. But if he has a drinking problem, your Pisces man gets distracted from the relationship.

He makes drinking his top priority. A Pisces man who drinks excessively can bring chaos into the relationship. He disrupts your goals and is in constant crisis.

For a Pisces man, toxic behavior is exacerbated when he drinks too much. Drinking can bring out his worst traits. Discourage him from going to extremes.

3. Financial Dependency

Pisces men can be passive in relationships. They love caring and nurturing people but can also take advantage of your generosity. If you aren’t careful, he depends on you financially.

Your Pisces man may pass the bill to you after a date because you paid last time. A Pisces man takes your generosity for granted if you aren’t clear about your boundaries.

Pisces men are notorious for being bad with money. They ignore budgeting and can be carefree with money. Pisces don’t pay attention to financial restrictions.

He can come to rely too heavily on you to help him financially if you aren’t careful. Set limits with your Pisces man and encourage him to share the financial responsibilities in the relationship.

When a Pisces man calls you baby and tries to get you to forgive him for running up a tab on your credit card, it’s a red flag. He can’t control his spending habits.

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4. Poor Boundaries

Pisces men are not comfortable with boundaries. They feel restricted by any limitations. But a red flag for a Pisces man is someone who shows unhealthy boundaries.

A Pisces man with weak boundaries can become toxic. A red flag for Pisces men is when they become intrusive. A Pisces man who seems to take over your relationships and ignore your need for space has no boundaries.

He doesn’t moderate his emotions and becomes needy and dependent. If a Pisces man is not receptive to healthy boundaries it is a warning sign he is not ready for a relationship.

Signs Pisces should avoid include fire signs and air signs. A Pisces man does best with a water or earth sign woman who can keep him balanced. But if he has no boundaries, he’ll turn off an earth sign woman.

You may get excited if you see signs a Pisces man is attracted to you sexually. But if your Pisces man has poor boundaries, he can be too needy in the bedroom.

A Pisces man womanizer can betray your trust. You must be clear about your expectations. Pisces men show red flags when they disregard your limits and flirt with other women.

5. No Discretion

A Pisces man who lacks discretion will only cause trouble in your life. He constantly acts like a victim if he can’t discern friends from people who take advantage of him.

He runs to you to rescue him or bail him out after his poor decisions land him in trouble. A Pisces man with a naive nature brings drama into the relationship.

If he can’t be discreet and shares secrets openly, he is showing red flags associated with an immature or toxic Pisces man. Pay attention when he is indiscreet. He doesn’t respect boundaries and may be too open with intimate details.

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6. Immaturity

A Pisces man can be hard to read because he is inconsistent. He is immature if he is in love with you but acts petty. Passive-aggressive mind games are a red flag.

A Pisces man who shows you these behaviors never owns up to his wrongdoing. When a Pisces man is immature, he gaslights you and picks fights.

He uses his emotional wounds to get attention and to silence you. He doesn’t support you and can’t tolerate your needs. Your Pisces man can be manipulative and may use self-pity to control you.

How does a Pisces man test you? He may set you up and push your buttons to see how you react. You can’t make him commit if he is immature.

You may see signs a Pisces man doesn’t like you mixed in with signals of his love for you when he’s immature. It’s a red flag for a Pisces man to give mixed signals for a long time in relationships.

7. Obsession with His Ex

A Pisces man shows you red flags when he constantly talks about his ex. He may get into a relationship when he’s not over his ex. He dreams of her because she is the one that got away.

If he speaks about his memories from his relationship with her, it’s a red flag. When a Pisces man is ready for a relationship, he puts the past into perspective and doesn’t fawn over someone who is no longer around.

He shows you he is committed to you instead of bringing up his time with his ex. A Pisces man who can’t stop talking about his ex is showing you a red flag. He lives in the past and still tries to impress her if he’s not over her.

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8. He Doesn’t Follow Through

Pisces men can be inconsistent. They make promises and get distracted before they follow through on their plans. But when a Pisces man chronically disappoints you, it’s a red flag.

When he never shows up after promising to help you or if he tells you he’ll call you but never does, he is not reliable. A Pisces man who doesn’t follow through on his promises has no intention of committing.

You can waste time and emotion trying to chase a Pisces man who doesn’t follow through. He may promise you the world, but if he doesn’t follow up on what he tells you, it is meaningless.

Why are Pisces men so hard to pin down? As a water sign, they follow their emotions. They prioritize feelings over rationality. But if a Pisces man repeatedly lets you down and is never there for you, he’s immature.

9. He’s in a Cult

Beware of a Pisces man who is enamored with a spiritual guru. Men born under this sign are prone to joining cults. They love the sense of belonging and fall for the promise of spiritual enlightenment.

Your Pisces man may seem perfect but if he surrenders control of mundane decisions to a spiritual leader, he may be involved in a cult. Pisces men go to extremes.

If he’s in a cult, he may lose his sense of reality. He allows someone else to control his decisions and may act brainwashed. A Pisces man in a cult will always follow the instructions of the cult leader even if you try to warn him to think clearly.

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10. He’s Jealous

A Pisces man who is always jealous is showing you red flags. He should be open and compassionate in relationships. If he is not empathetic and accepting of your friendships, it’s a bad sign.

A Pisces man who becomes jealous of your friendships with other men is showing you a red flag. He tries to get you to cut ties with male friends and becomes possessive.

Pisces men who display jealous behavior are not ready for a relationship. Men born under this sign can be sensitive but they usually focus on unity, not trying to interfere with your friendships.

For a Pisces man, the green flags that he wants to be with you are easy to spot. He makes you his top priority and is agreeable and affectionate. But if a Pisces man shows signs of jealousy you’re seeing warning signs that things could get worse.