How to Flirt with a Leo Man through Text

“Should I text a Leo man first?” You may wonder this if it’s been a few days since you’ve heard from your Leo love interest. Yet Leo men don’t like being chased.

When you are too eager in your attempt to contact a Leo man, it can actually discourage him. He may not reach out to you if he feels overwhelmed.

A Leo man’s texting habits can be confusing. He may go from zero to one hundred and contact you nonstop when he is passionate about the relationship, only to shut down suddenly.

Always Be Playful

If you’re wondering how to know if a Leo man likes you through text, you’ve got to show him your playful and lighthearted side. Leo men are childlike and they prefer fun and games to serious conversations.

If you do contact him first, be playful. Like a game of tag, you need to text a Leo man in a way that makes him want to chase you back. If you use emergencies or crises to get his attention, he’ll feel overwhelmed quickly.

Even if he does respond to you, he won’t keep up this game for long. Instead, a Leo man will be more responsive if you act playful. Send him jokes or trivia and he will be more likely to flirt back in response to you.

When you see the signs a Leo man is interested in you, this is an important time to show him how fun and playful you are. Although you may be serious about him, if a Leo man feels you are too serious he may be scared away.

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Make Flirting a Game

When a Leo man is done with you, he will make it clear. He will shut off all forms of communication or will make a scene of showing you he’s not into you. Yet if he keeps the communication open, make flirting a game and he’ll respond.

The more you can make a Leo man feel like he’s playing a game and not testing the waters for romance, the better. If you flirt with a Leo man in a way that encourages him to take turns responding to you or that involves trivia, you’ll get his attention.

If he feels like he’s playing a game, he’ll keep coming back for more. Leo men love to engage in anything fun and entertaining. Don’t flirt with him out of fear or anxiety of losing him. If you can release the pressure of trying to impress him, he’ll feel the lightheartedness of your texting.

Use Plenty of Humor

If you want to know how to make a Leo man want you more, find ways to make him laugh. Leo men fall in love with women who have a great sense of humor. If you can make him crack a smile or burst into laughter, you’ll capture his heart.

Use humor when you text him, but be careful not to make it seem like he is the target of the joke. Never joke at a Leo man’s expense. They act tough, but have a relatively thin skin when it comes to protecting their pride and vanity.

Use humor to break the ice or to get a Leo man to respond to you through text, as long as the joke is not likely to offend him. Send him links to funny videos, especially videos involving animals or children. Send him witty jokes to impress him with your intelligence.

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Be Suggestive

When you are first testing the waters with a Leo man, you can send him texts which are suggestive and may have a double meaning just to see how he responds. If he gets your references and can see the flirty or sexy meaning in your text messages, he’ll text back on the same level if he’s interested.

If he avoids your suggestive references or changes the subject altogether, it is a clear sign a Leo man is not interested in you. If you’re wondering how to know if a Leo man is playing you, use this method to test him as well.

If a Leo man is too overtly sexual or avoids flirting back at all, these can be signs he is not interested in a relationship or is only looking for a sexual connection. If you flirt with him and just hint at intimacy, his response will tell you his intentions before things go too far.

Don’t Go Overboard

If you want to know how to get a Leo man to chase you, you’ve got to start out slow. Text him minimally at first. Even when you flirt with him, do so a little at a time. Don’t go overboard.

If he is responsive when you text him, this is a good sign. You can take your texts to the next level. Just be careful to avoid going to extremes. If a Leo man feels like you’re falling in love with him, he may cool off if he is not ready for a relationship.

Keep your communication with him playful, flirty and light hearted. If you are tempted to open your heart and tell him exactly how you feel about him, don’t do this through text. This is not his idea of flirting.

To a Leo man, flirtation is meant to be similar to teasing. He expects you to flirt with him a little at a time as a way to entice him to chase you. He doesn’t expect flirtation to become too emotional. If he feels you’re getting too attached, he may pull back.

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Boost His Ego

A fool-proof way to flirt with a Leo man through text is to boost his ego. When you give a Leo man a hefty dose of flattery, it is likely to go a long way to turning him on and getting a response. The important point here is to make sure your flattery is always authentic.

Leo men are easily drawn in by a good ego boost but if he feels you’re being insincere he’ll know it in an instant. He will shut down immediately from someone who is building him up without sincerely meaning what they say.

The more you flatter him in sincere and genuine ways, the more you’ll encourage a Leo man to flirt back with you. Leo men are driven by pride and ego. They will want to spend more time communicating with people who boost their ego and self-esteem.

Admire Him

Following along with this thinking, the more you admire a Leo man the more likely he will be to flirt back with you. Leo men love to receive the praise and admiration of others. When you admire a Leo man with a sincere tone, you’ll get his attention.

Send him a thank you text when he does something kind for you and be sure to go the extra mile and tell him how helpful he was. Bonus points if you add to your text that no one has ever been as helpful as he was.

If you make references to how your Leo love interest is the fastest, strongest, bravest and best at whatever it was he has done for you, it will read as much welcomed flirtation. He also loves it when you admire his appearance.

Text him an admiring note about his new haircut or admire his good taste in fashion. Tell him how impressed you are with his car, business, career or creative talents as well and you will succeed in getting a Leo man to pay attention to your flirtation efforts.

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Send Erotic Selfies

Though you may want to be discreet when you flirt with a Leo man through text, you can get his attention by sending erotic selfies. It doesn’t take much to turn a Leo man on. He loves a romantic look but can also enjoy a dramatic scene.

You don’t have to be too revealing but a picture can definitely paint a thousand words when it comes to flirting with a Leo man through text. Send photos that show your best attributes.

Even selfies that aren’t overtly sexual can appeal to a Leo man’s romantic side. He is an adventurer so if you send selfies you took while out on a hike in nature, you can appeal to his sense of courage and passion, for example.

Send Links to Romantic Songs

Leos are born performers and often have musical talents. They tend to love theater, music and the arts. When you send a Leo man links to romantic songs you can get his attention.

One way to flirt with a Leo man is to use music. Quote his favorite love songs or text him music videos that will put him in the mood for love and romance.

When you draw on a Leo man’s interest in music or the humanities, you can impress him with your connection to the arts. This is one of his favorite ways to flirt through text.

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Drop Subtle Hints

Leo men can be over the top when they’ve built up enough momentum. Yet in order for a Leo man to find the right fuel for his passion he needs to experience subtle hints at first. When you start slow, you’ll give him room to build the romantic tension.

Drop subtle hints at first and see how a Leo man responds. He may be captivated by your flirty texts, yet wonder if you really are serious about your romantic attraction.

When you get a response from him, give away a little more detail at a time. This keeps him hooked and wanting more from you. He’ll become more responsive because he’ll see that you are showing increasing signs of romantic interest in him. Start slow at first and watch for signs that he is chasing you.