10 Tips for When a Gemini Man is Ignoring You

Wondering what to do when a Gemini man pulls away? First, don’t panic. A Gemini man giving mixed signals may have a reason that has nothing to do with you.

Gemini men get bored easily. He may just need breathing room or may feel things are becoming too repetitive. The last thing you want to do is chase him.

A Gemini man who is ignoring you may still like you. Give him some space initially. If this doesn’t encourage him to chase you again, there are other tactics you can try.

1. Entice Him with Trivia

When a Gemini man is distancing himself, implement a no contact rule with a Gemini man for at least a week. After some time has gone by, reach out to send brief and playful texts. A technique that can get his attention is to send him trivia questions.

You can also send him quick “fun facts” related to a topic you know he is interested in. Don’t bombard him, though. Send one text, then wait. If he doesn’t reply, don’t continue to use this technique. Instead, give him a few days and don’t contact him.

In the meantime, appeal to his love of trivia and natural curiosity by posting things about yourself online. Leave clues and hints about how you are doing and lead him to you with a trail of informative “breadcrumbs” that you post on your social media feeds.

If you’re wondering how to make a Gemini man think about you, sometimes the best thing to do is nothing. Giving him some time to himself can often remedy the situation. If it doesn’t, appeal to his love of new information. Start dropping hints that you’re writing a new book, taking a class, changing jobs or going on a trip.

Post these messages openly if he doesn’t respond to your attempts to text him directly. He may not be responding right away, but if he likes you, he’ll start reading your feed at some point.

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2. Be Playful

When a Gemini man is done with you he’ll make it clear. If he’s just gone quiet, he may have valid reasons that have nothing to do with a change in heart. One thing is for certain, though, a Gemini man will put his attention toward the most interesting thing in his life.

If you aren’t coming across as fascinating and intriguing, he may simply put his energy into other friendships. To redirect his attention back to you, remind him that you are fun and playful.

Send him a joke or funny video. Initiate some kind of online game. Invite him out to do something fun or exciting. If distance is a factor, initiate some play time online.

If you’re wondering what to do when a Gemini man is mad at you, this is not the best tactic to start with. Before he can get back into a playful mood with you, he’ll need some time to himself to put things into perspective.

3. Give Him Space

Sometimes, the only thing a Gemini man needs is to have some space to himself. Gemini men are highly independent. If the relationship has become too intrusive or too much like work, he’ll pull away. If you chase him, he’ll resist this even more.

Sometimes the best thing to do with a Gemini man is to let him go off on his own for a while. This will guarantee that he’ll start to miss you after some time. Chasing him will only turn him off in the long run.

When a Gemini man goes quiet and it seems like he’s going through something emotional or personal, he may resist support because he won’t want to seem vulnerable. Let him have some downtime. While you’re giving him space, catch up on your friendships and interests.

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4. Catch Up on Reading

When a Gemini man disappears and doesn’t respond to a few reasonable attempts to communicate, the best thing you can do is put your focus back on yourself. Catch up on reading. This works in two ways.

First and most important, it broadens your mind and fulfills you personally. Second, this gives you some new ideas to share when you talk to him again. Gemini men love women who are intelligent and they love discussing books.

Remember, it’s best to use this tactic because it is helpful to you personally. The fact that it helps to allure a Gemini man is a bonus. Intellectual energy appeals to men born under this sign.

5. Act Uninterested

For a short period of time, acting uninterested can work. The key is to not give the impression you are mad at him. Simply act like you’re not as into him as you really are.

Sometimes Gemini men go quiet because they feel the pressure of the attraction and fear commitment. If you act less interested than you are, a Gemini man will often step up to the plate because he feels the pressure is off.

When he disappears it could be because he’s feeling like the relationship is becoming too intense or too serious. Stepping back and letting things cool off a little can be reassuring to a Gemini man.

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6. Flaunt Your Adventures Online

Wondering what to do when a Gemini man ignores you? Attract his attention through your online content. What you post on social media can have a big influence on how he responds to you.

Use your platforms to put your best foot forward. Don’t tag him or DM him. Just let him see the photos and descriptions of all the amazing things going on in your life.

It may still take him some time to come around, but by posting your adventures online, you’re planting seeds that will impact how your Gemini man sees you. He’ll start to miss you and wish he was having these adventures with you.

7. Travel

In addition to being the sign of communication, Gemini is also the sign of travel. Gemini men will be enticed to communicate with you if you leave home for a while and embark on some exciting journeys.

When you post about your travel plans or road trip online, a Gemini man will take notice. He’ll see that you are having a great time on the road and will reminisce about the time he spent with you. He may even want to live vicariously through you and so will reach out to talk about your trip.

When you post about your travel online, don’t give away too much detail. Leave him questioning if you’re on vacation, traveling for work or if you’re moving. Leave him guessing as to whether you’re traveling solo or with friends or someone special.

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8. Take a Class

The more information you have, the more a Gemini man will want to communicate with you. Try to maintain an upper hand in terms of intellect and information by enrolling in a class or taking workshops on a subject you know he is interested in.

When you can speak about a subject he loves or even a new topic of interest, a Gemini man will want to pick your brain. Learn the lingo of his industry or hobbies, for example. If you have shared interests in technology, take a class on a new innovative program.

The goal is not to boast but to entice him to want to seek you out and communicate with you so that he will learn about the fascinating things you are studying. The way to a Gemini man’s heart is through his mind.

9. Learn a Language

What happens when you ignore a Gemini man? If he likes you, he’ll take more of an interest in chasing you. Yet it is not enough to just ignore him. It’s far better to put your energy into expanding your mind as you give him a break. One of the ways to do this is to learn a new language.

Gemini men love languages. They are fascinated by people who can speak or read in various languages. If you’ve always wanted to learn different languages, now is the time to use an app or take a class and become fluent.

Drop hints about this on social media or send him a message greeting him in a new language to get his attention. If you reach out directly, only do this once. Wait for him to respond before sending follow up messages.

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10. Send Funny Texts

Humor can go a long way with a Gemini man. If you want him to respond to you, making him laugh will often do the trick. This may not work as quickly if he is mad at you.

Yet generally speaking, a Gemini man will be encouraged to communicate with you when he is reminded of your sense of humor. If you can make him laugh unlike anyone else, he will become more attached to you.

Send him a funny text, especially one involving puns or word play. If he doesn’t respond, wait before texting him with a follow up message. Give him at least a week before trying to text again for another reason.