10 Signs an Aries Man is Using You

Aries men usually prefer to be transparent and straightforward in relationships. Aries men aren’t perfect, though, and sometimes an Aries man will use you.

He might do this if he’s just trying to fill a void until he finds someone he genuinely wants to be in a relationship with. If that is the case, he won’t stop dating around or flirting with other women.

An Aries man will be unreliable, inconsistent, and even rude if he’s using you. He will only turn up the charm when trying to get something from you.

1. He’s Unreliable

How do you know if an Aries man is using you? He will be extremely unreliable. You won’t be able to depend on him for anything.

Are Aries men trustworthy? Most of the time, the answer is yes. If an Aries man cares about you, he’ll try to maintain your trust in him.

An Aries man won’t care about being trustworthy or reliable if he’s using you. He’s not going to be bothered if you get upset at him for canceling plans or blowing you off.

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2. He’s Inconsistent

Do Aries men lie? Most Aries men prefer to be honest and straightforward. You might notice that you’re always catching your Aries man in a lie if he’s using you, though.

Your Aries man will be extremely inconsistent when he’s using you. He’ll tell you one thing one day and the complete opposite thing the next.

The truth about Aries men is that they’re bad at lying. An Aries man might make up a lie on the spot and then tell a contradictory lie later because he forgot about the first one.

Your Aries man might also treat you well when he wants something from you. He may be charming before asking a favor, only to turn completely cold once he gets that favor from you.

3. Doesn’t Let You Meet His Family

When an Aries man is using you, he will not introduce you to his friends or family. He won’t bring you to work events either.

If he won’t introduce you to anyone else in his life, he doesn’t intend to keep you around.

An Aries man might not introduce you to his friends or family right away if you two just started your relationship. He may be using you if he’s refusing to after you’ve been together a while.

If your Aries man is serious about you but doesn’t want to introduce you to his family yet, he’ll let you know it’s too soon.

An Aries man who is using you might outright say that he doesn’t want you to meet his family.

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4. Might Seem Heartless

If your Aries man seems like an uncaring robot, he might be using you.

When an Aries man loves someone, he is extremely affectionate. He loves with all his heart, and he will do anything to show his partner that he cares about them.

If an Aries man is using you, you will not feel any of that affection or passionate love.

Your Aries man might seem completely heartless if he’s using you. He won’t show you any affection, no matter how much you might crave it.

He likely won’t pay much attention to you or notice things about you. Unless he needs something from you, he might even act like you don’t exist.

An Aries man won’t invest any of his emotions in you if he’s using you. He won’t try to connect or form an emotional bond. He’s not going to open up at all.

5. Never Listens To You

Many Aries men are great listeners when they care about someone.

They might not always be the best at comforting people or offering emotional support, but you can be sure that an Aries man who loves you will listen to what you have to say.

If you need to vent about your terrible day at work, an Aries man who cares about you will gladly sit there and listen.

An Aries man who loves you will remember the things you say to him. When you tell him what your favorite book is or what foods you don’t like, he’ll remember.

When an Aries man is using you, he won’t listen to you. He might pretend to if he needs to for some reason, but he won’t care about what you’re saying.

If you notice that your Aries man never remembers basic facts about you, it might be because he doesn’t care about you. He wasn’t listening when you told him those things.

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6. Ignores Your Needs

If an Aries man is done with you, his entire mood will change. He’ll start treating you entirely differently than he did before. One thing he’ll do is start ignoring your needs.

Similarly, an Aries man who is using you will completely ignore your needs. Unless he has to do something to get what he wants, he will likely completely ignore your desires.

You will always see an Aries man’s selfish side when he’s using you. This is especially true in bed.

An Aries man who is using you might completely ignore what you want in bed. As soon as he gets what he wants, he may leave or move on to doing something else instead of ensuring you’re satisfied.

7. Only Calls When He Wants Something

One of the signs an Aries man is using you is that he will only call you when he needs something from you.

If your Aries man only reaches out to ask for a favor or invite you over to have sex, he’s using you.

When an Aries man likes you, he’ll reach out to make plans to hang out. He will have actual conversations with you. Not every request to see you will end in sex.

Asking for favors isn’t bad. However, if an Aries man is always asking for favors and then ghosts you when you say no, that’s a sign he’s using you.

Are Aries men cheaters? Not all of them are. An Aries man who is using you won’t care about cheating, though. If you don’t give him what he wants, he’ll just ask someone else for it.

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8. Never Responds To Messages

Aries men tend to be good at responding to messages. When an Aries man cares about you, he’ll want to chat with you whenever he can.

An Aries man who is using you might ignore your messages unless it’s beneficial to him to reply.

You might notice that your Aries man only replies when you message to offer him something. He may only reply if you ask to hang out, and he has nothing else going on.

If your Aries man always ignores what you’ve said and starts messaging to ask about something else, he might be using you.

This doesn’t mean that something is wrong just because your Aries man didn’t reply to a couple of messages. If he’s overall good about responding, things are probably okay.

9. He Flirts With Other Women

Will an Aries man use you? He might if he’s trying to fill a void. For example, he may be feeling down after a breakup and need an easy rebound.

Most Aries men prefer to put effort into people they actually want to be with. If an Aries man is using you, he might still be out there flirting with other women and trying to form a genuine connection with someone else.

Are Aries men players? Some of them can be. A single Aries man will have no problem dating around and flirting with multiple women.

If your Aries man insists that he’s only seeing you, but he’s always doting on other women, he’s probably using you.

An Aries man who cares about you will at the very least try to hide that he’s flirting with other women. If he flirts with other women in front of you, he’s probably using you.

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10. Never Compliments You

One of the signs an Aries man isn’t interested in you is that he’ll never compliment you. Compliments are one way an Aries man shows his affection for the people he loves.

Aries men often like to dote on their partners. When an Aries man loves you, he will shower you with compliments and affection. He wants to make sure that you know how much he cares!

It won’t even cross his mind to compliment you half the time when an Aries man is using you. He’s unlikely to notice things to compliment in the first place.

Insincere compliments are another sign an Aries man might be using you or that something else is up.

For example, an Aries man might try to butter you up if you won’t give him what he wants. He’ll throw some your way if he thinks a few compliments will make you give in. He won’t mean them, though.