How to Talk to an Aries Man

Always say what you mean when you’re talking to an Aries man. He hates it when people are passive-aggressive or indirect in their speech.

If you want to keep your Aries man interested, talk about things you know he enjoys. If you’re not sure what he likes, let him lead the conversation. You can also ask about him or compliment him. He’ll love that!

You should be respectful when talking to an Aries man as well, especially if you two aren’t that close. You can joke around with him, but don’t be insulting.

Be Direct

An Aries man’s communication style is direct. He’s a straightforward person, and he appreciates it when people communicate with him in a similar manner.

Try to be as direct as possible when talking to your Aries man. You don’t need to make small talk with him first to be polite. He likely doesn’t consider small talk to be polite in the first place!

If you’re asking an Aries man a favor, get to the point. Let him know you need a favor and tell him what it is. Don’t try to butter him up first.

If you’re not straightforward with your Aries man, he might think you’re insincere or passive-aggressive. He may also misunderstand what you want from him!

You can avoid communication breakdown with an Aries man when you’re direct. He’ll know that you’re being sincere, and you’ll be able to get what you need from him.

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Be Assertive

Talking to an Aries man is much easier if you are confident and assertive. This is especially true if you need to speak with your Aries man about something important.

Aries men have dominant personalities. They quickly take control in a situation and can sometimes take over if they talk to more passive people.

If you want your voice to be heard, assert yourself. Speak up if you’re with an Aries coworker who always talks over others. Stand up for yourself and ensure that he listens to you.

Don’t be shy if you need your Aries man to listen to something you’re telling him. Make sure that you get your point across. If he’s refusing to listen for some reason, don’t back down.

Be Honest

What an Aries man wants to hear is the truth. He’s not interested in dealing with dishonest people. Tell him the truth, even if you think it’s something he won’t want to hear.

If an Aries man asks you for your honest opinion about something, he genuinely wants to hear your opinion! He’s not fishing for compliments or looking for a specific answer.

Aries men genuinely value honesty. He’d rather hear a hard truth than a kind lie.

If you don’t want to tell an Aries man your honest opinion about something, such as his new haircut, don’t say anything. He’d rather hear nothing than hear a lie!

Aries men do not see the point in lying to people. He will always try to be honest with you, so you should return the favor whenever you’re talking to him.

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Be Respectful

When learning how to communicate with an Aries man, make sure you are respectful. You can have fun and joke around, but try not to insult him.

If you don’t know an Aries man well, avoid certain contentious or taboo subjects unless he brings them up first.

Aries men aren’t shy and will talk about specific topics others won’t, but it’s still better to wait until an Aries man starts talking about those subjects. This is especially true if the Aries man is your coworker or you know him in another professional setting.

If an Aries man ever thinks you’re being disrespectful toward him, he won’t want to talk to you. He’ll likely become irritated and avoid you in the future.

When speaking with an Aries man, try not to dominate the conversation. Allow him to speak and be prepared to listen. He’ll think you’re rude if you sit there and ramble at him without taking time to listen to him as well.

Exciting Topics

What do Aries men like to talk about? Your Aries man will gladly speak with you about anything you’re passionate about, as long as the conversation is exciting.

Aries men love to see the passion in other people. Even if it’s not a topic he knows a lot about, you can keep him interested by showing him how excited you are to talk about it.

If you aren’t sure what to talk about with an Aries man, try asking him about himself! Aries men love attention and enjoy talking about themselves.

Your Aries man will bring up some exciting topics if you ask him a few questions and show that you’re interested in hearing more about him.

Try switching topics if your Aries man has gone quiet during your conversation. He might be getting bored, and once you start talking about something else, you can renew his interest in the conversation.

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Intellectual Discussion

Aries men get a reputation for being reckless and impulsive, but they are also intelligent! You can engage your Aries man in intellectual discussions, so long as they are about topics he’s interested in.

Not all Aries men are “book smart,” but they are still smart. They have important insights to offer about various topics, and they are excellent problem-solvers.

The type of intellectual discussion an Aries man enjoys is the type that is geared toward finding solutions. He doesn’t often enjoy philosophical or theoretical conversations. He wants to find real answers to actual problems.

You can engage your Aries man in conversation by asking him for help with something. If you two are coworkers, ask him for help with a project you’re stuck on. You can ask your Aries friend for solutions to interpersonal problems as well.

Many Aries men also love to debate. It’s often better to engage him in a low-stakes debate about a topic neither of you is too passionate about, though. Otherwise, you risk it evolving into a full-blown argument!

Compliment Him Often

If you want to chat with an Aries man, it never hurts to throw in a few compliments! Aries men love a bit of an ego boost.

Your Aries man will enjoy talking to you if you make him feel good about himself. Make sure to slip in a few compliments when you’re talking to him, regardless of what you’re talking about.

Compliments are a great way to endear yourself to an Aries man. As long as you’re sincere, you can never compliment him too much!

If you notice that your Aries man seems down while talking to him, compliments are a great way to cheer him up.

An Aries man might not always want to talk about his feelings or ask for support. He’ll always accept a compliment, though!

Your Aries man will appreciate compliments about his appearance, but don’t stop there. Compliment his personality and achievements as well.

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Don’t Be Passive-Aggressive

There are few things Aries men hate more than passive-aggressive people. Your Aries man will have no interest in talking to you if you communicate in a passive-aggressive manner.

As mentioned, you should be direct when talking to an Aries man. He doesn’t have the time or patience for passive-aggressive behavior.

If you are angry with your Aries man, you need to address that with him. Don’t ignore him, make snide comments, or be rude to him when you two talk. That won’t get you anywhere.

If you act negatively toward your Aries man, he’ll stop talking to you. He will not bother carrying on a conversation with you until you decide to tell him what’s wrong.

Don’t make patronizing comments to your Aries man while you two are talking. Never try to make him feel stupid. He’ll notice you’re doing it, and he’ll likely start avoiding you.

Say Exactly What You Mean

When you’re learning how to talk to an Aries man, you should learn how to get to the point and say what you mean.

Some men will gladly figure out all the hidden meanings behind your words. For example, a Scorpio or Gemini man will happily read between the lines (whether you intend for them to or not).

Aries men don’t have time for that. An Aries man will often take anything you say at face value. If you want to communicate a particular point to him, just communicate that.

Your Aries man will not enjoy talking to you if you never say what you mean. He doesn’t want to constantly try to solve a puzzle to have a conversation with you. Be forthright as much as possible.

An Aries man will never fault you for speaking your mind. He will fault you for refusing to say what you mean when talking to him.