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How to Turn On a Scorpio Man in Bed

Updated December 11, 2024

Whether you’re getting intimate with a Scorpio guy for the first time or looking to spice up the relationship, you need to know how to turn on a Scorpio man in bed.

How do you please this intense sign?

Because they are one of the most sexual signs of the entire zodiac, it’s both challenging and simple to turn on a Scorpio man in bed.

It’s easy to turn him on because he already thinks about sex all the time, but what makes it difficult is sustaining his interest.

You can use astrology to know not only how to turn a Scorpio man on in the bedroom but also how to keep him coming back for more.

Keep the Mystery Alive

Scorpios are one of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac because they are so complex and aloof. Most Scorpios embrace their dark nature and like maintaining an air of mystery.

A Scorpio man is turned on by a woman who is equally as mysterious as he is. He wants a woman who is restrained and controlled in public, but wild and passionate behind closed doors.

If you want to turn on your Scorpio partner, you need to leave a little to the imagination.

You shouldn’t dress very provocatively or show off all of your best moves right away. Hold back a little and let him get to see and know more of you slowly over time.

A Scorpio is patient when it comes to seduction, so building up the excitement and keeping the mystery alive will titillate him.

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Surprise Him

When a Scorpio has a crush on you, he tries to learn as much about you as possible. He is gathering evidence to determine whether or not you would make a compatible couple.

A Scorpio man in love adores discovering new things about his partner. He’s a complicated guy, so he is attracted to a complex woman with a layered personality.

If you want to turn on a Scorpio guy, you have to keep him on his toes.

Be unpredictable, especially in the bedroom. Don’t stick to the same dull routine over and over.

Surprise him by suggesting something new to try in bed, or show him that you feel like getting physical at unexpected times.

When he’s doing the dishes, sneak up behind him with nothing on, wrap your arms around him, and start kissing his neck.

When he turns around and realizes what you’re up to, he is sure to be turned on by your sexy surprise.

Make an Effort with Your Appearance and Grooming

If you are wondering how to attract a Scorpio man and turn him on in bed, you need to make an effort with your appearance and grooming.

He doesn’t expect you to look like a supermodel or always be perfectly polished, but a Scorpio guy feels special when his partner dolls up for him.

What makes your efforts to look good for your Scorpio guy so special to him isn’t about your looks, but about your attempt to please him.

He wants to see that you care about him enough to take care of yourself and that you value and respect yourself as much he does.

You don’t need to make a special effort every single time you get intimate with your Scorpio guy, but every so often you should go the extra mile.

Take a sensual bath to get yourself in the mood and clean up for your Scorpio man. Spray yourself with perfume, style your hair, and apply lotion or oil so your skin feels soft and smooth.

Your Scorpio guy will go wild with lust when he realizes that you have put a little more work into looking and feeling good for him.

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Wear Black and Red Lingerie

Most men are visual creatures and a Scorpio man is no exception. You can turn him one easily by making a sexy display of yourself in the bedroom.

If you want to know how to get a Scorpio man to chase you, try putting on some sexy lingerie for him.

Some signs prefer delicate, feminine lingerie. This is fine for a Scorpio guy, but if you are more into leather than lace, he’s into that, too.

The colors associated with the zodiac sign Scorpio are black and red, so try to choose sexy underwear in those colors.

Send him a photo of yourself in the lingerie or even just a picture of it set out on your bed. Text him that you can’t wait for him to get home so he can see your special outfit in person.

Be Confident

Even more than perfume or lingerie, the sexiest thing a woman can wear in the bedroom for a Scorpio guy is confidence.

What attracts a Scorpio man physically isn’t a particular body type or certain features. He is attracted to a woman who loves her body and isn’t afraid to show it off.

Don’t try to hide your body or position yourself only in angles you think are flattering when you have sex with a Scorpio guy.

He will see through your insecurities and view them as obstacles he has to overcome to improve your sex life.

He will be patient and help you work through any insecurities you may have in bed, but he loves it when you show him how confident and self-assured you are.

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Be Experimental

A Scorpio man won’t settle for a boring, repetitive sex life. As perhaps the most sexual sign of the entire zodiac, he needs variety to keep things spicy in the bedroom.

Once a Scorpio man figures out what you like in bed, he will instantly start looking for other ways to please you and push your sexual boundaries.

This isn’t a guy who will find the one move you like and always go for the same thing over and over again. He likes to get experimental and needs a partner who is willing to try new things, too.

If you want to turn on your Scorpio guy, share your fantasies with him and show him how eager you are to try them.

He doesn’t mind if you are inexperienced; in fact, he loves being your first partner in new sexual adventures.

Let Him Take Control

Scorpios are some of the biggest control freaks of the entire zodiac. They need power and control at all times, including in their relationships.

This doesn’t mean that a Scorpio man only wants a meek, submissive woman; in fact, he prefers a strong woman who knows what she wants.

This also doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t instigate sex. He wants you to show him how much you want him, but he also wants to be in charge.

A Scorpio man’s ideal woman is confident and assertive but still lets him be dominant in the bedroom.

To seduce your Scorpio guy, let him take control in bed. He likes to take the lead, and you will never be disappointed with where he takes you.

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Be Passionate and Affectionate

Some signs are more comfortable with physical affection than others. Scorpios aren’t touchy-feely with most people, but they can’t keep their hands off of their significant other.

Scorpios don’t like a lot of PDA, but when he is comfortable kissing and touching you in public, it’s one of the signs a Scorpio man likes you a lot.

If you want to make your Scorpio man go crazy in bed, you need to be affectionate and passionate.

Don’t treat sex like a chore or something you just want to get out of the way. Take your time, make it romantic, and show him that you enjoy expressing your love through intimacy.

Show Your Emotions

Scorpios are very intuitive, so they use a lot of non-verbal communication, especially with their partners.

A Scorpio man expects his partner to understand him better than anyone else, so when he gives her a seductive look, she should know that he’s in the mood for sex.

For a Scorpio man, eye contact is important and helps him make an emotional connection with you.

If you want to turn him on, hold eye contact while you are getting physical. It increases your mental connection and makes the experience more meaningful to him.

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Stroke His Ego

Scorpios have big egos, so a sure way to turn on your Scorpio guy is to shower him with compliments and sincere flattery.

Just make sure that anything you tell him is sincere because Scorpios are excellent at sniffing out lies.

Don’t exaggerate and don’t say anything you don’t mean, but show him how much you appreciate and adore him in the bedroom.

What a Scorpio man wants to hear is that he’s the best lover his partner has ever had and that no one else could ever compare to him.

When Scorpio man touches you, he looks for your reaction to see whether or not you are enjoying yourself.

Make sure that you are vocal in bed and communicate with your words and actions how much you love your time in bed together.

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