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If a Pisces man is testing you, it’s likely because he’s not sure of your intentions. He wants to know if you’re serious about him.
A Pisces man wants to test your dedication and support. He wants to make sure you’ll be a good partner.
If a Pisces man closes himself off or shuts down emotionally, he might be testing you. He wants to see how you react. A Pisces man wants a partner who will comfort him if he’s feeling bad.
A Pisces man also needs a partner who is dedicated and supportive. He needs to know that you’ll be there for him if he needs you. He wants to see if you’ll give him the attention he needs.
Pisces men are not trying to be manipulative when they test you. Most of the time, they are just trying to protect themselves.
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Closes Himself Off
If you want to know how to tell if a Pisces man is using you, pay attention to how he acts when he closes himself off emotionally.
When a Pisces man is legitimately upset or closed-off, he will likely avoid you and everyone else around him. If he’s testing you, he’ll stick around and observe how you respond to his actions.
Pisces men need compassion from their partners. When they are upset, they need someone to pull them out of their depression. He wants to see if you can be that person.
Once you learn to read a Pisces man, you’ll be able to tell if he’s legitimately upset or if he’s just testing you.
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Shuts Down Emotionally
Does a Pisces man test you before deciding to commit to you? He does. One of the ways he does this is shutting down emotionally.
There will be times when a Pisces man legitimately shuts down. When Pisces men are stressed out or overwhelmed, they will often retreat from the world around them.
Pisces men are self-aware enough to know that they have escapist behaviors. Your Pisces man needs to know how you’ll handle the situation when he shuts down.
He might shut himself off emotionally and retreat from the world even if he’s not stressed out. Your Pisces man will do this to see how you react.
You won’t always know the difference between a test and an actual shutdown. Even if you think he’s just testing you, treat your Pisces man with care and compassion.
Tests Your Availability
One of the signs a Pisces man is testing you is that he’ll constantly ask for your help. He will reach out often, ask to hang out, and generally monopolize your time.
He wants to see how available you are to him. He knows you won’t be available 24/7, but a Pisces man expects a partner to be available when he needs them.
Pisces men like to spend a lot of time with their partners. If you are the type of person who is rarely home, your Pisces man might think that you’re not available enough for him.
Your Pisces man just wants to make sure that you’ll have time for him. He can’t be in a relationship with someone who is never there.
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Tests Your Support
How does a Pisces man test you? One thing he’ll do is test your support. He wants to see how caring and compassionate you are.
A Pisces man might test you by going to you when he’s having a problem. He might reach out if he’s feeling a little down that day too.
Your Pisces man wants to see how you handle the situation when he needs support. Do you actively listen to what he has to say? Do you ask him what he needs and allow him to express himself?
Most Pisces men aren’t looking for someone to fix their problems. They just want someone who will listen to them. Your Pisces man wants to see what kind of person you are.
Pisces men need a lot of emotional support in relationships. If you can’t be his shoulder to cry on, you might not be the person for him.
Tests Your Dedication
Pisces men need dedicated, committed partners. They are not happy in relationships if they cannot rely on their partners.
Your Pisces man will test how devoted you are to your relationship. There are many different ways individual Pisces men will test your dedication.
A Pisces man might see how you respond when other men flirt with you. He wants to know if you’ll flirt back or if you’ll brush them off.
Your Pisces man might also ask mutual friends what you have to say about your relationship. Are you telling him one thing but telling them another? Do you seem like you are genuinely happy and dedicated to the relationship?
A Pisces man wants to know that he can rely on you. He doesn’t want to commit to you, only to end up having his heart broken later on.
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Waits For Apologies
Pisces men are very forgiving people. Many Pisces men will even forgive misdeeds without ever getting an apology from the person who hurt them.
Your Pisces man might wait around for an apology if he’s testing you, though. Even if he’s already forgiven you, he might stay away until you reach out to say you’re sorry.
Many Pisces men are used to getting walked all over. If your Pisces man has had a relationship where his partner constantly hurt him without apologizing, he won’t want to deal with that again.
If you hurt your Pisces man or fight with him, it’s a good idea to apologize as soon as possible. Make amends and sincerely tell him how sorry you are.
A Pisces man might decide he’s not sure about your relationship if you’re never willing to apologize. He might forgive you, but he’ll become wary of you.
Won’t Reach Out First
If you want to understand a Pisces man, you need to know that he doesn’t always take the initiative in a relationship.
Some Pisces men never reach out to other people because of their personalities. Others don’t reach out as a way of testing someone.
Your Pisces man wants to see if you enjoy talking to him and being with him. If you never text him or try to make plans with him, he’ll start to think you don’t want to be around him.
Again, some Pisces men just aren’t good at contacting people first. It’s always a good idea to reach out to your Pisces man if you haven’t heard from him in a while.
Your Pisces man is likely just waiting for you to message him first, whether he’s testing you or not.
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Introduces You To His Inner Circle
If Pisces man likes you, he’ll want to introduce you to his friends and family. He will start to incorporate you into his inner circle.
Introducing you to his inner circle is also how a Pisces man tests you. If you can’t get along with the people closest to him, he likely won’t want a long-term relationship with you.
If you want to know when a Pisces man is playing you, pay attention to whether or not he takes you to hang out with his friends. If he’s playing you and has no intention of committing, he won’t do this.
When a Pisces man does introduce you to his friends, that’s a good sign!
Try your best to treat his friends kindly if you want a future with your Pisces man. His friends are important to him, and he won’t want to be with someone who mistreats them.
The Silent Treatment
Pisces men are sweet, compassionate people. However, they are also capable of being extremely passive-aggressive.
A Pisces man might test you with the silent treatment. He does this for a variety of reasons.
If you two fight, a Pisces man will give you the silent treatment until you make amends with him. He’ll ignore you for days if you aren’t willing to reach out to him first.
A Pisces man might also use the silent treatment when he’s upset, even if you aren’t the reason why. He will do this because he wants to see if you can pick up on his emotions.
Pisces men want partners who will seek them out and comfort them. A Pisces man won’t always ask you for support. He wants to see if you’ll just know when he needs it.
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Tests Your Boundaries
Will a Pisces man test you and your boundaries? He will. One way a Pisces man will test you is by pushing your limits.
A Pisces man isn’t necessarily trying to overstep your boundaries. He is trying to push your buttons a little and is actually testing your temper.
How a Pisces man tests you might seem unfair or manipulative when he’s testing your boundaries. He does respect boundaries and won’t want to push you too far.
Your Pisces man just wants to know that if he makes a mistake, you won’t blow up at him. He wants to see if you’ll explain the boundary and talk to him about respecting it or if you’ll start a fight.
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My pisces man is incarcerated but we’ve been talking to each other and having video visits for over two years now. And all during that time, he’s been showing me so much love, love like I’ve never known before. He’s been so sweet and considerate and caring. He always calls me, maybe not everyday because he tries to be considerate of my finances. And then we have our video visits and he always acts attentive and excited to see me. But now all of a sudden, in the past three weeks, I have gotten one email a week just letting me know that he’s okay and that he loves me and misses me. But no phone calls. No calls in 18 days now. He has never done this before and it’s making me think that he’s losing interest in me and that really hurts. I don’t know what to think. I mean, I’ve read alot about pisces men and how they will slowly disappear on you if they lose interest. I’m really hurt by this. I don’t understand what’s going on with him I don’t know what to do or think.I don’t know if I’ve one something wrong or what? I thought we were getting along fine. And he always told me that if he didn’t want to be with me anymore, he would tell me. He wouldn’t just disappear on me. But it seems like he’s ghosting me right now. Can anyone give me some advice? Please!! I hate this! I’d rather know the truth than have someone just disappear on me.
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