How Do You Get a Libra Man to Text You?

If you want to know how to make a Libra man obsessed with you, the key is to know when a Libra man is interested in you. Don’t chase a Libra man.

If your goal is to get a Libra man to text you, you have to be patient. This dance requires knowing how to spark his interest and how to step back and wait.

When a Libra man goes quiet, you can rest assured he is still thinking of you. Your attempts to get him to text you should be subtle and never demanding.

Don’t Initiate Contact

Resist the urge to contact a Libra man who goes quiet on you. Even if he is still texting but not as frequently, don’t try to encourage him to text more by texting him first. This takes practice and patience.

You have to feel secure in yourself and have high self-esteem in order to wait out a distracted and flighty Libra man. What does it mean when a Libra man stops texting you? Sometimes it’s as simple as his being distracted.

He may be busy or he may be overwhelmed. It’s not always one of the signs a Libra man has lost interest in you. It is important to not jump to conclusions when it comes to communication with a Libra man.

Libra men are notorious for only focusing on one relationship at a time. This means if he is catching up with friends he hasn’t been in contact with, he may let his communication with you slide. Don’t assume the worst.

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Post Attractive Selfies Online

One of the biggest signs a Libra man is not into you is that he will only reach out when it’s convenient for him or when he wants something. You can try to attract his attention in subtle ways and see if he takes the bait.

If you’re wondering how to know if a Libra man is playing you, it’s helpful to watch his reaction when you post attractive selfies online. If he’s only interested in sex, he’ll act flirty or start sexting.

But if he’s really ready for a relationship, he’ll see an attractive selfie that you’ve posted and make a point to politely compliment you. If you’re wondering how to know when a Libra man is done with you, watch his response.

If he’s ignoring your signals, it’s an indicator he’s no longer interested. This is especially true if he ignores your attractive selfies. Libra men usually can’t resist beauty.

Hint About Needing Advice Online

Another subtle way to leave some bait for a Libra man to text you is to openly ask for advice online. Post on your social media asking a question or seeking help from your connections. If your Libra man sees it, he’ll be quick to respond.

A Libra man can hardly resist sharing his advice or opinions. He loves to be friendly and helpful. He can’t pass up the chance to help a damsel in distress. When you ask a general question, or seek guidance, he’ll respond.

A Libra man will see your plea for help and will text or direct message you to offer his advice or help. Give this tactic time to work. Don’t expect him to see your post immediately. He may not be online or on social media at the moment.

Make your request for advice something that is urgent but not critically time sensitive. This way, if he sees your post the following day, he will still be moved to reach out to you because it is not too late to offer his opinion.

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Be Optimistic and Positive

The more you can show your optimistic attitude through your interactions online, on social media and even in your texts to him, the more likely a Libra man will contact you. He’ll reach out because he wants to be around positive people.

He’ll love your optimistic attitude. A Libra man may seek you out when he’s stressed because he believes you can boost his mood and remind him to look for the silver lining. The more you convey positivity, the more you’ll be a Libra man magnet.

This is not a tactic you can effectively use only once. By it’s nature, this tactic is one that needs to be used consistently over time. It’s not enough to post one positive saying or send one optimistic text.

Rather, this needs to be a part of your personality. When you show your Libra man that you can balance stress with hopefulness and that you are confident and able to see the best in others, he’ll generally prefer to communicate with you.

Send Photos of Food

Once in a while, send a photo of what you’ve made for dinner or the meal you’re enjoying in a restaurant. When you send photos of food to a Libra man, you’ll spark his interest. The key is to not overuse this tactic.

If you send a photo of your favorite meal or the meal you’re about to enjoy, send a small caption to put your photo in context. Simply sending random food photos will bore a Libra man. Once or twice it may amuse him.

But over time he will make the assumption that you are just fishing for his attention. He may make the assumption that you lack depth which will turn him off. Send a brief message such as “Dinner is served! What are you having?” to engage his interest.

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Send Romantic Selfies

On a similar note, from time to time send your Libra man a romantic selfie. Make sure your photo is flattering, soft and sentimental. Choose a picture that will make him want to respond immediately.

Don’t overuse this tactic though. A Libra man can be vain because he loves beauty and loves to see himself as handsome, but he won’t look favorably at someone who seems to be obsessed with taking pictures of themselves.

When you pick an extra special romantic selfie and send it to your Libra man with a brief message, you’ll attract his attention. He’ll respond to your text at the very least to admire your photo.

Text Him Enticing Hints

Usually a Libra man wants to have full, deep, intellectual or philosophical conversations. But if he’s not responding to your texts and playing it cool, sometimes the best way to get him to reply is to drop hints.

If things are going well in the relationship and your communication is solid, don’t do this. It will only annoy him. But if he is being aloof and growing distant, hint about something interesting.

You can hint about starting something new, having a decision to make or going through some major development. You don’t want to come across as being all about drama. This will be a turn off for a Libra man.

Instead, tempt him to respond by making some vague references to something new or exciting. You may even post an ambiguous message on social media to catch his attention and leave him guessing.

Initially, he’ll try to figure out your meaning himself. Then he will get slightly frustrated with not knowing. He’s curious by nature and his desire to know what’s going on will get the best of him. Even if he tries to hold out.

Eventually, he’ll ask what is going on. When he does this, switch from playing coy to being straightforward. Don’t leave him guessing at this point. By being open when he responds, you’re rewarding him for responding, not turning the conversation into a game.

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Don’t Be Too Revealing

Sometimes you don’t have to go quite as far as dropping hints to get a Libra man to text you back. In between the extremes of being an open book and being secretive is a happy medium of being direct but not revealing too much.

If you keep your texts to him specific but brief, you’ll encourage him to respond. He’ll know that you don’t use texts to waste his time and that you are candid. He appreciates honesty.

A Libra man is lovable, romantic and sensitive. But he does get bored easily. If he thinks he’s figured out all there is to know about you, he will lose interest. Don’t be too revealing. Leave him wanting more.

Try to be the first to end a conversation. This reminds him you are a busy woman with a lot going on in your life. Rather than feeling put off, a Libra man will be more likely to keep in touch because he knows you won’t overstep his boundaries.

Leave him guessing so he’ll keep coming back for more. Like a good TV series that doesn’t allow for full closure, compelling you to binge-watch, you want your communication to leave a door open.

If he feels like he has you all figures out, he will not feel compelled to get back to you right away. By being honest and direct but a minimalist texter, you’ll compel him to respond to you.