How to Talk to a Gemini Man About Feelings

A Gemini man hiding his feelings is common. You can count on him to stifle his emotions. Bringing up feelings in a conversation can backfire as Gemini men are savvy.

They know how to talk around an issue and will cover up their deeper feelings as often as they can. A Gemini man not interested in you will make it clear. He will ignore you.

Yet even when he shows signs he likes you, a Gemini man won’t usually express his feelings. You have to know how to recognize the signs he cares about you.

Use Humor

When you see signs a shy Gemini man likes you, you can use humor to try to get him to let his guard down. This can be effective as Gemini men typically have a good sense of humor and will ease up and express his feelings if he is relaxed.

Joking with him can help a Gemini man trust you as well. He is more likely to feel comfortable if he feels like you know how to laugh at yourself and if you don’t seem to take yourself too seriously. A Gemini man who sees that you have a good sense of humor will be more likely to open his heart to you.

Don’t expect him to divulge his feelings in a sentimental and vulnerable way. He may use humor to express how he feels as well. Don’t take this as a sign of disrespect, it is not. This is just the way a Gemini man deals with emotions.

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Don’t Smother Him

When a Gemini man ignores you, the best thing you can do is to not smother him. Give him space. More often than not, if he really likes you, he’ll come back around. When a Gemini man feels like you’re trying too intently to get him to talk about his feelings, he may shut down.

He will see this as intrusive and smothering. It is far better to let him bring up emotional conversations gradually. Take baby steps when trying to get a Gemini man to open up. If he feels you’re aiming for emotional conversations, he’ll do anything to avoid you.

Gemini men need a lot of breathing room in relationships. Even when a Gemini guy is in love with you, he still wants independence in the relationship. The irony is a Gemini man is more likely to talk to you about his feelings if you don’t pressure him and give him plenty of room.

When you see signs a Gemini man likes you, don’t put pressure on him to open up, instead, let him start to share his deeper feelings with you when he feels comfortable doing so. When he starts to show you he cares, he may then go quiet for a few days. This just means he’s feeling vulnerable. Don’t panic, he’ll come back when he’s ready.

Keep it Positive

If you want to know how to tell if a Gemini man is playing you, the best thing to do is to stay calm. Don’t show him you are too attached. Let him think he has to chase you still. When you play hard to get, a Gemini man who likes you will chase you.

He’ll want to make sure you remain interested in him. The best way to get him to chase you is to beat him at his own game by being slightly elusive. Don’t always be available when he texts you. Keep him waiting occasionally.

The more you remain positive the more you can encourage a Gemini man to open up to you and tell you how he feels. He is more receptive to optimistic, playful and fun conversation. If you are trying to talk to him about something serious, you’ve still got to entice him by keeping the conversation light.

If you preface a conversation with a Gemini man by saying you need to have a talk, it will turn him off. He’ll immediately start to expect that you’re going to dump some heavy emotions on him and he will recoil away from this. Instead, keep your tone light and playful.

If a Gemini man ignores you, you may have gone too far trying to express your feelings to him. You may have to step down and give him a break for a while. When a Gemini man resurfaces, it can be a sign he is really interested in you. Don’t get ahead of him, though. Give him a chance to catch up with you emotionally.

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Use Pop Culture References

A Gemini man secretly in love will be reluctant to show it. He never wants to appear vulnerable. You can help a Gemini man open up and also encourage him to share his feelings if you leverage pop culture references.

Gemini men love witty humor. When you use a bit of satire or make reference to feelings in relation to recognizable pop culture icons, he’ll respond. Telling him he’s the Ross to your Rachel, for example, will get his attention more than trying to have a heavy and sentimental conversation.

Even when you see signs a Gemini man is falling in love with you, you will have better luck if you filter your conversation through a lens of pop culture trivia. Reference celebrity couples or famous love stories from literature or sitcoms. He’ll be better able to express his feelings in these terms.

If you’re wondering what to do when a Gemini man pulls away from you, you can get a Gemini man to reconnect and open up to you when you take the pressure off of him. Talking about feelings by using pop culture icons as your frame of reference will make a Gemini man more likely to open up to you. He will be more likely to share his feelings when he can use the coded language of pop trivia that is close to his heart.

Quote Songs

Similarly, when you want to bring up the topic of emotions and his feelings for you, quoting love songs is another way to help a Gemini man lower his defenses. A Gemini man who is reluctant to speak about emotions off the cuff will be more likely to do so when he is prompted by music references.

A Gemini man feels more comfortable when he is able to quote songs and express his feelings in someone else’s words. This may seem odd since a Gemini man is never really at a loss for words. But when he is open to conversation it is usually about intellectual and not emotional topics.

The more personal and potentially vulnerable a conversation becomes the more important it is to give a Gemini man a way to distance himself from the topic. By discussing the topic through references to his favorite love songs, a Gemini man will once again feel the pressure is taken off his shoulders.

If a Gemini man ignores you, you can try to entice him by texting him a link to a favorite song or a few quotes from a song that explain how you feel but aren’t too personal. This can help to re-engage him.

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Quote Movies

When you quote the love scenes from a Gemini man’s favorite movies, you can also encourage him to talk about his feelings. This is another way to start out with playful conversation that can really have a more serious undertone.

You’ll have to use the context to determine if a Gemini man is serious or is joking with you. Yet he is more inclined to speak about his feelings if you quote his favorite movies. He will likely follow suit.

This keeps him from feeling to personally vulnerable and emotionally exposed, since technically he is quoting someone else. Yet he will tell you his emotional sentiment through the conversation even if it was initiated by a discussion of a love scene in a movie.

Intellectualize

A Gemini man is more likely to intellectualize his feelings than to speak about his emotions directly. He will try to analyze his feelings and may speak about his ideas rather than how he feels about you.

Don’t be disappointed if he speaks about his feelings indirectly in this manner. This is common for a Gemini man as he prefers to stay in his head rather than speaking from his heart. A Gemini man is likely to talk about how he thinks rather than how he feels.

This doesn’t mean he doesn’t have feelings for you. As skilled as he is in communications, a Gemini man may fall short of being able to express himself when it comes to emotions. This can lead you to assume he is hiding something. The truth is, Gemini men simply don’t feel comfortable talking about feelings. Emotional language is unfamiliar to them.