9 Signs Your Gemini Man is About to Break Up with You

Sometimes, you won’t see any signs before a Gemini man breaks up with you. Some Gemini men can be incredibly impulsive. A Gemini man might end a relationship before you’ve had the chance to notice something is wrong.

If you do see signs, he might be unsure of what he wants to do. He may spend less time with you and become incredibly evasive while he decides if he wants to break up.

Your Gemini man will probably stop making long-term plans with you. He’ll spend more time alone and may never have time for you.

1. He’s More Secretive

Gemini men can sometimes be more secretive than people know. They are social and charming, so they seem like open books. Many are not, though.

However, a Gemini man who loves you will be open with you. If you’ve been together for a while, he’s likely revealed his secrets to you. He’s probably more open and honest with you than anyone else.

A Gemini man who is about to break up with you will return to his secretive ways. He’ll suddenly cut you off and stop letting you know his thoughts and feelings.

Your Gemini man might start preparing to move out before he breaks up with you. He may also avoid telling you about significant changes in his life, such as a new job or a move to a new city.

A Gemini man who is breaking up with you because he wants to be with someone else will definitely be secretive. He won’t want you to know about the other person until he’s ended things with you officially.

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2. He Never Has Time For You

Gemini men don’t spend time with their partners 24/7. They often have other friends they want to hang out with and may like being alone now and then as well.

A Gemini man who loves you will make time for you, though. Even if he’s incredibly busy, he’ll still reach out to talk or try to plan dates with you when he can.

If your Gemini man is about to break up with you, he might suddenly seem like he never has time for you.

This might be more obvious if you live with your Gemini man. He might avoid being at home at the same time you are. He may start going to bed early, hiding out in his office, or playing games and ignoring you when you’re both at home.

A Gemini man who wants to break up with you won’t see any point in continuing to make an effort in your relationship. He won’t care if he’s not spending enough time with you.

3. He’s Incredibly Moody

If a Gemini man is unhappy in a relationship, he might suddenly become moody. Instead of trying to hide his negative emotions, he may let them bleed through and cause issues in your relationship.

He may also become moody if your Gemini man is mad at you. The difference is that you’ll likely know why he’s cranky. If you two argued, you’d know that’s why. He may also tell you what you did wrong.

Gemini men try not to be overly emotional. When they feel sad or angry, they try to talk things through with their partners instead of just acting moody for no reason.

If your Gemini man refuses to tell you why he’s acting out, he might be ready to break up with you. If he were just upset about something, he’d tell you. He’d accept your support and try to work through his emotions.

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4. He May Seem Conflicted

Will a Gemini man regret losing you once he breaks up with you? If a Gemini man is uncertain about breaking up with you, he might worry he’ll change his mind.

A Gemini man who is considering breaking up with you might seem conflicted. He may also seem uncertain and upset if he wants to break up with you but isn’t sure how to.

Sometimes, a Gemini man isn’t sure if he wants to end a relationship. He might take time to consider his options before breaking up with you.

Gemini men can be incredibly indecisive at times. If you’ve been together for a long time, your Gemini man might not want to end things even if they’re not working out.

If your Gemini man starts playing hot and cold or constantly seems like he’s got something on his mind and won’t tell you what’s going on, he might be reconsidering your relationship.

5. He Reaches Out Less

How do Gemini men deal with breakups? Some will cut contact with their exes, at least temporarily. If your Gemini man starts cutting contact while you’re still together, that might be a sign he’s getting ready to break up with you.

Some Gemini men will ghost people if they’ve only been dating for a short time. If a Gemini man stops reaching out after one or two dates, he’s probably no longer interested.

Gemini men will start reaching out less when they’re done with a long-term relationship, too, though they typically won’t ghost their soon-to-be ex. They will stop chatting with them as often as they used to.

A Gemini man who is going to break up with you will likely not reach out to apologize after arguing with you, either. Usually, when a Gemini man hurts your feelings, he will apologize. He won’t if he wants to end things.

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6. He Goes Out Alone More Often

If you’re in a relationship with a Gemini man, you probably go on dates often. A Gemini man won’t spend every waking moment with his partner, but he’ll still take her out frequently.

A Gemini man who is about to break up with you will stop taking you on dates. He likely won’t give a reason why, either. He’ll stop taking you out even if he legitimately is not busy.

You may notice that your Gemini man does still go out, though. He may suddenly be busy every night. He might go to bars or restaurants alone on nights when nobody else is free to hang out with him.

If your Gemini man always goes out alone, even when you’re available, that might be a sign he’s getting ready to break up with you. He might also be doing something he’s trying to hide from you.

7. He’s Evasive

When you hurt a Gemini man, or he is angry with you for some reason, he’ll usually tell you what’s wrong when you ask. If your Gemini man is angry or upset and won’t tell you why he might be getting ready to break up with you.

Your Gemini man might suddenly be evasive when you ask where he’s going or what he’s doing. If he’s leaving the house to get away from you, he won’t want to tell you where he is.

A Gemini man may start avoiding you if he’s about to break up with you. If you don’t live together, he’ll stop going to places you both frequent, so he doesn’t accidentally run into you.

If you do live together, he’ll do anything he can to avoid interacting with you. He’ll evade any questions about what’s wrong or why he’s acting the way he is too.

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8. He Stops Making Long-Term Plans

How do you know a Gemini man is done with you? Even if he doesn’t break up with you immediately, he’ll stop making long-term plans or discussing the future with you.

If you know one of your Gemini man’s family members is getting married soon and he doesn’t invite you to the wedding, that’s a red flag. Typically, a Gemini man would bring his partner to important events like that!

Your Gemini man might avoid discussing summer plans if you typically go on vacation together. He won’t tell you when his next company holiday party is because he doesn’t plan on still being with you by then.

9. He’s Incredibly Distant

How does a Gemini man break up with someone? If he thinks he might want to end a relationship, he might start distancing himself while taking time to think things over.

Not all Gemini men think before doing something, but many will try to think about significant decisions instead of impulsively acting on how they feel in the moment. Gemini men can be pretty logical.

Something is wrong if your Gemini man is incredibly distant for seemingly no reason. He might be thinking about breaking up with you.

A Gemini man who was previously open with you about how he feels might close himself off emotionally once he decides he wants to break up with you. He might do this because he thinks it will make things easier for both of you.

When a Gemini man is done with you for good, he’ll distance himself and never become close to you again. He might temporarily become distant if he’s in a bad mood, but a Gemini man who is done with your relationship will remain distant.