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How Do Capricorn Men Play Hard to Get?

Updated March 15, 2024

Not many Capricorn men play hard to get on purpose, but they are hard to get!

Capricorn men take a long time to open up. They will close themselves off and push you away no matter how hard you try to win them over sometimes.

Many Capricorn men don’t like playing games. They prefer to be direct and honest. If you think a Capricorn man is playing hard to get, he might not actually be playing.

Capricorn men aren’t easy people to win over! They are legitimately hard to attract sometimes, even if they aren’t purposely playing games with you.

If a Capricorn man is playing hard to get on purpose, watch out! He’ll be incredibly confusing. You won’t be able to tell how he feels about you, and his tendency to close himself off will be even more intense.

He Doesn’t Like Games

Does a Capricorn man play hard to get? Many Capricorn men won’t, but it’s not unheard of!

Most Capricorn men don’t like playing games in relationships. They are busy people! They don’t have time to play hard to get or constantly chase after someone who is.

When a Capricorn man respects you, he will try to be honest with you about his feelings. If he’s playing hard to get, it might be because he genuinely doesn’t want a relationship right now.

If a Capricorn man is playing hard to get, it’s probably because he’s unsure about your feelings. He might go slower than usual because he doesn’t want to get his heart broken!

When a Capricorn man plays hard to get, it’s usually not for long. He might play hot and cold at first, but he’ll stop once he sees you’re serious about your relationship.

Capricorn men don’t play hard to get because it’s fun or because they like manipulating other people. Most of the time, they play it to see how someone feels about them.

Making you chase him might be the only way a Capricorn man can be sure you’re serious about him. If he goes cold and you give up on him immediately, he’ll know that you two probably aren’t meant to be.

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He Takes His Time

Why do Capricorn men play hard to get? Sometimes, they do it because they are just trying to test you and see if you’re serious about a potential relationship.

A Capricorn man playing hard to get will take his time. He won’t jump into anything with you and may go at a frustratingly slow pace.

Your Capricorn man might play hard to get if he’s unsure about your motives. He may think you’re just interested in a fling, so he’ll act like he’s not interested.

He will take his time with everything. Your Capricorn man won’t ask you on a date or do anything else until he’s sure you’re interested in him.

Your Capricorn man might take his time regarding certain relationship milestones. You may notice that he won’t kiss you or talk about sex even after a few dates. He might also take a long time to ask you out again between dates.

Your Capricorn man will continue taking his time and playing hard to get until he’s certain about how you feel about him. If he’s playing hard to get, try opening up more! Show him how serious you are about him.

He Focuses On Other Things

A Capricorn man might play hard to get by focusing on other things in his life. He’ll make it clear that he’s purposely shifting focus away from you too!

Sometimes, the best thing to do when a Capricorn man ignores you is to be patient. Your Capricorn man might be playing hard to get, but he may also legitimately be busy!

Show your Capricorn man that you can handle it when he focuses on other things. Don’t be clingy, and don’t constantly message him.

Instead, let him know that you respect his time. Tell him you understand that he’s busy but that you would like to have some time together when he’s free. Then, wait for him to respond.

If you show that you don’t want to play games, your Capricorn man will probably ease up. He doesn’t usually like playing them, after all! He’ll start to focus on you more and focus on playing around less when he knows that you respect him and his time.

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He Closes Himself Off

A Capricorn man purposely playing hard to get will close himself off. He might go out of his way to seem more mysterious and aloof than usual.

Many Capricorn men are aloof. They are emotionally distant, and opening up to others is difficult.

If your Capricorn man suddenly closes himself off even more than usual, it might be because he’s playing hard to get.

Does your Capricorn man only close himself off when you’re busy? Does he close himself off when you’re expressing interest in others?

He may be trying to get your attention. If your Capricorn man is trying to make it obvious that he’s closing himself off from you, he may be more open around other people.

Give your Capricorn man the attention he wants. If he responds well to that, he is playing hard to get!

Can Be Hot & Cold

A Capricorn man playing hard to get might be rare, but it does happen! If yours is playing hard to get, he might seem hot and cold toward you.

Capricorn men don’t like seeming like a sure thing. Your Capricorn man might warm up to you, then pull away once things get too intense.

Capricorn men play hot and cold for a variety of reasons. Some legitimately have difficulty opening up and will be inconsistent as they figure out how to be more emotionally open.

Yours might be doing it on purpose, though. If you suspect that your Capricorn man is warming up and cooling off consciously, then he may be playing hard to get!

Show your Capricorn man that you can handle his emotions. If you can do that, he might stop playing hard to get. He’ll warm up to you, and he’ll just keep getting warmer.

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Won’t Pursue You

If a Capricorn man is no longer chasing you, he might be trying to give you a taste of your own medicine!

A Capricorn man might start to play hard to get if you have been playing it too much. Instead of chasing after you, he’ll make you do the chasing for once.

If you usually play hard to get and your Capricorn man chases after you, he may stop after a while and turn things around on you.

If you want to make a Capricorn man chase you, you must show some interest. He might stop chasing you and start playing hard to get to force you to show him you’re serious.

See how your Capricorn man reacts when you pursue him instead. If he continues to pull away, it might be because he’s no longer interested. If he starts chasing you again, he was probably just playing hard to get.

He’ll Confuse You

If your Capricorn man is playing hard to get, you’ll probably feel confused when you’re with him. It will be challenging to tell how he feels about you.

If a Capricorn man is confusing you and doesn’t seem to care, he might be trying to confuse you on purpose!

Your Capricorn man might not want you to know how he truly feels. He will do anything he can to hide his feelings and may end up confusing you in the process.

He might hint at liking somebody but refuse to tell you who it is. He may seem like he’s starting to get closer to you, then pull away at the last minute.

If you tell your Capricorn man that his words or actions are confusing you and he doesn’t try to explain, he might be playing hard to get. He’s trying to confuse you on purpose.

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He’s Not Always Trying To Play

Capricorn men aren’t usually trying to play hard to get. They prefer to be open and honest instead.

A Capricorn man might seem like he’s playing hard to get when in reality, he’s testing you. How does a Capricorn man test a woman? For example, he might test your independence by not speaking to you for a few days.

Sometimes, Capricorn men just genuinely are hard to win over. They don’t fall in love easily, and they don’t jump into relationships.

If your Capricorn man says he likes you, but he’s moving incredibly slow, he’s probably not playing hard to get. He’s just taking things slow, and you should respect that!

Knowing when to give up on a Capricorn man can be difficult if he’s not moving your relationship in the direction you’d like.

Most of the time, you just need to be patient! Whether he’s trying to play hard to get or not, you can help move things along by continuing to show interest and letting him go at his own pace.

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