How To Beat a Gemini Man At His Own Game

If a Gemini man has been playing you and you want to get back at him, sometimes not reacting is best. Don’t contact him. Focus on yourself instead. Go to a party and show him that you’re too busy for him anyway.

Behaving the way your Gemini man does can beat him at his own game. Flirt with others in front of him, gossip about him, and let him catch you in a few lies.

Play hot and cold with your Gemini man. Make plans with him, then cancel or forget about them.

Don’t Contact Him

Beating a Gemini man at his own game can sometimes be challenging. If he genuinely doesn’t care about you, he’ll move on to someone else as soon as you start fighting back.

One way to mess with a Gemini man is to make it clear that you don’t want to talk to him. Even if he isn’t that interested in you, it will bother him if he doesn’t know why you won’t contact him.

Gemini men are used to people loving to be around them. They’re great conversationalists, and people usually enjoy chatting with them! Refuse to reach out and make it clear that you don’t enjoy talking to him.

If your Gemini man is expecting you to reach out, don’t. Leave his messages on read and completely ignore him whenever he tries to talk to you.

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Focus On Yourself

Gemini men can be self-absorbed at times. They sometimes love talking to hear themselves talk or enjoy talking far more than listening. They don’t always focus on others.

If you want to beat a Gemini man at his own game, focus entirely on yourself. This will mess with him, whether he’s self-absorbed or not.

A Gemini man who is good at listening might feel like you don’t care about him if you only focus on yourself when chatting with him. If you answer his questions about you but never ask anything about him, that will mess with him.

A selfish Gemini man might not like it when you flip things around on him and refuse to focus on him. It will mess with him if he has to fight you to shift the focus back to himself.

Flirt With Other Men

Gemini men tend to be flirts. Of course, they aren’t always serious about it, but they do sometimes go a little too far.

If your Gemini man has been flirting with others in front of you, do the same thing to him! Ignore him and go flirt with other men instead.

This might confuse your Gemini partner if you don’t typically do this. He may wonder if something is wrong with your relationship if he sees you fawning all over other men while he’s around.

Gemini men aren’t necessarily the jealous type, but it might mess with a Gemini man if you flirt with other men but refuse to flirt with him.

If a Gemini man is trying to flirt with you and you ignore him to chat up someone else, he’ll wonder why! This will mess with him even more if he thinks you are interested in him.

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Be Too Busy For Him

A Gemini man will understand if you can’t always spend time with him. If you’re too busy to see or chat with him, that might mess with him.

Your Gemini man will want to spend time with you if he cares about you. If he enjoys your company, he’ll try to plan things with you or at least message you to talk.

When your Gemini man reaches out, show him that you’re too busy for him. Don’t just ignore him for no reason. Show him why you’re ignoring him.

Tell him that you’re busy with something (or someone) else any time he tries to make plans with you. Tell him you’re on the phone with someone else if he calls.

It will mess with your Gemini man if you’re too busy for him, even when he genuinely needs you. Be careful about that, though! You might beat him at his own game, but you’ll also push him away.

Forget Plans With Him

If you want to play mind games with a Gemini man, make plans with him and then constantly forget about them. That might make him feel unimportant if you do it often enough.

Gemini men can be forgetful at times. They also cancel plans sometimes because something more exciting comes up.

It will mess with a Gemini man when you do this to him. He likely won’t realize that you’re just acting the same way he is. He’ll be disappointed you forgot about him, and this will mess with his head.

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Party Without Him

If you want to make a Gemini man feel guilty for hurting you, start going to parties and other events without him. If he’s typically your plus one, start going alone or taking other people instead.

Gemini men love to party. They’re also used to being invited to everything because of how social and friendly they are.

If you specifically exclude a Gemini man whenever you have a party, or you get others to invite you and not him to functions, that will toy with him.

A Gemini man might feel lonely if he’s excluded from things. He may realize that he needs to behave better to start getting invited to parties again.

Look Your Best

If you want to make a Gemini man think about you, look your best whenever he’s around! Don’t let him think you’re looking your best for him, though.

Post photos of yourself whenever you go out. When you see your Gemini man in public, make sure he notices you, but pretend not to notice him.

You can beat a Gemini man at his own game when he sees you showing off for others. He’ll be attracted to you and may wonder why you never show off for him.

If you’re trying to make a Gemini man regret losing you, show him what a catch you are but refuse to acknowledge him. Don’t reply if he compliments you, but make sure to talk to other men when they pay you a compliment.

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Be Hot & Cold

If you want to know how to play a Gemini man the same way he plays others, be hot and cold with him. Show him exactly how other people feel when he acts that way.

A Gemini man might like it if you play a little hard to get. If you want to mess with him, you must go beyond that. Make it so that he genuinely does not know if you like him.

If a Gemini man is giving mixed signals, do the same thing to him! Flirt with him and show a lot of interest, then completely pull back and ignore him.

If your Gemini man plays hot and cold with you, turn things around on him. When he acts interested in you again after being distant, be cold and aloof toward him.

Lie To Him

One of the signs a Gemini man is playing you is that he will lie constantly and purposely. If you want to get back at him, start lying to him too.

If a Gemini man trusts you, it will mess with his head to find out you’ve been lying to him. He can probably look past a few white lies, but you’ll toy with his emotions if you lie about important things.

Gemini men sometimes exaggerate when they’re trying to impress people. They aren’t always exactly as they seem because of this. A Gemini man might be shocked if you make yourself out to be someone you’re not.

Even if Gemini men lie sometimes, they don’t typically like it when others do. You can beat him at his own game by making him see how bad it feels when someone lies to you.

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Gossip About Him

If you want to manipulate a Gemini man, start gossiping about him. Talk about him behind his back and make sure he hears about it.

Gemini men are known to gossip, so this is a great way to give him a taste of his own medicine. They usually aren’t trying to be cruel, but it will mess with a Gemini man if you are.

If your Gemini man accidentally spills secrets or gossips about you to mutual friends all the time, do the same thing to him. Gossip about a private conversation or talk to friends about some things you don’t like about your Gemini man.

If you’re not trying to hurt a Gemini man, be careful with this one. Spreading a nasty rumor or gossiping about his deepest secrets will likely make him completely pull away from you.