How to Apologize to a Gemini Man

Gemini men tend to be good communicators, so yours will let you know if you’ve done something that requires an apology. He’s unlikely to sit around and wait for you to figure out what’s wrong.

When you’ve done something to upset your Gemini man, acknowledge his feelings. Listen to him if he needs to talk things through. You can explain your actions, but don’t shift the blame or get overly emotional.

You can apologize with a gift, but talking things over and actually changing your behavior should be part of your apology too!

Ask If He Needs Space

If you aren’t sure how to calm down a Gemini man, usually the best way is to give him space.

Before apologizing to your Gemini man, ask if he wants some time to himself first. He might want to wait until he’s calmed down and thought things over before he listens to an apology.

How does a Gemini man act when hurt? He’s unlikely to get overly emotional. He likely won’t lash out at you, cry, or make other big emotional displays.

If he’s upset with you, he will usually take time to calm down before talking to you.

After he’s had some time to cool off, a Gemini man will typically be more than happy to hear your apology.

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Apologize Right Away

Quickly apologizing is typically all you need to do to make a Gemini man forgive you. After he’s had some space, don’t waste any time giving him the apology he deserves.

Think about what you want to say while your Gemini man is cooling off, and then be ready to talk to him as soon as he wants to. Don’t delay your apology, even if you’re not entirely prepared for it.

If you don’t apologize to a Gemini man immediately, you’re dragging things out unnecessarily! He’ll likely be quick to forgive you, but you must apologize first for that to happen most of the time.

Acknowledge His Feelings

The best thing to say to a Gemini man when he’s mad at you is that you understand why he’s upset. Acknowledge and validate his feelings. He’ll appreciate you taking the time to do so!

Gemini men don’t tend to get overly emotional and aren’t upset by minor insults or accidentally insensitive comments. If you hurt your Gemini man’s feelings, it’s usually a big deal. Treat it as such.

Tell your Gemini man that you know what you did hurt his feelings. Let him know that you don’t blame him for being sad or angry and that you acknowledge your part in making him feel that way.

Your Gemini man will always appreciate it when you take the time to validate how he feels. He might even feel a little embarrassed for getting upset, so reassure him that it’s okay to feel the way he does.

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Explain Your Behavior

When Gemini men apologize, they typically explain why they did or said whatever upset the person they’re apologizing to. A Gemini man will appreciate it when you give him an explanation for your behavior too.

Explaining why you did something isn’t meant to excuse what you did, and the purpose isn’t to shift blame or absolve you from taking responsibility for your actions.

If you said something that upset your Gemini man because you were angry or just having a bad day, tell him that. Explain that it honestly had nothing to do with him and that you were lashing out.

If you did something to your Gemini man as retaliation for something he did, you could explain that. Explain that you still know what you did was wrong, though. Don’t try to blame him for your actions.

Don’t Get Emotional

A Gemini man’s apology style tends to be pretty unemotional. He might feel emotional, but he’ll try to stick to the facts and talk things out rationally.

When apologizing to your Gemini man, try not to get too emotional. Remain level-headed and try to have a calm, mature conversation.

Your Gemini man is unlikely to make a big emotional scene, even if he’s upset. There’s no reason for you to cry while apologizing if he’s not crying because of whatever you did to hurt him.

If you cannot be calm for some reason, just let your Gemini man know that you need some more time to settle down. He’ll understand.

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Don’t Shift The Blame

The worst thing to do when a Gemini man is mad at you is trying to shift the blame. Even if you think he has something to apologize for as well, focus on giving him your apology first.

Your Gemini man will likely know if he needs to share the blame. While you two are talking things over, he’ll probably apologize for his part in whatever happened too.

If you said or did something cruel, don’t blame your Gemini man for it. You can explain why you did something without telling him that it’s his fault you behaved that way.

Gemini men tend to be rational people. Your Gemini man probably won’t blame you entirely for an argument, even if his feelings were hurt. He’ll be willing to talk things over when you both share the blame. You don’t need to shift it all onto him.

Listen To Him

When you’re apologizing to a Gemini man, he might want to talk things over instead of just listening to the apology. Listen to him if he needs to talk things through or tell you how he feels.

Your Gemini man might want to explain his side if you upset him in retaliation for something he did to you. He may also need to tell you exactly why something you said hurt his feelings if you don’t understand why.

Genuinely listen to your Gemini man. Even if emotions are running high or you’re upset too, let him explain himself. He’ll let you explain your side, so give him the same courtesy.

If your Gemini man wants to talk about how you two can work things out better in the future, be prepared to do that too. Listen to his suggestions and take them to heart.

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Apologize With A Gift

If you want to make up with a Gemini man and don’t feel like an apology is enough, try giving him a small gift along with your apology.

Gifts should not replace an apology. A little token to show you care will sweeten the deal and might make your Gemini man feel better if he’s upset.

Something as simple as a cup of coffee can make a Gemini man feel better if you upset him. If he’s sad because of something you said, bring him a treat from his favorite bakery or make his favorite food for dinner.

As long as you aren’t just throwing gifts at him and refusing to apologize, your Gemini man will likely appreciate any present you give him.

Show Genuine Remorse

Gemini men are forgiving. They can forgive minor mistakes quickly and may not even require an elaborate apology sometimes, depending on what you did.

A Gemini man doesn’t have endless patience and forgiveness, though. If you really messed up, you must show genuine remorse for what you did.

Let your Gemini man know that you feel terrible for hurting him. You don’t need to get emotional or try to make him feel bad for you, but let him know that you feel guilty and that you’re upset with yourself for whatever you did.

Showing remorse is more than just apologizing. When you show remorse, you are letting your Gemini man know that you genuinely own up to what you did. You acknowledge his emotions and the effect that your actions had on him.

Your Gemini man likely won’t be upset with you for very long when he knows you are genuinely sorry. Even if you did make a big mistake, he will likely still forgive you.

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Change Your Behavior

Will a Gemini man forgive you for hurting him? He will most of the time! If you keep making the same mistake over and over again, though, he’ll become less forgiving over time.

You might have hurt your Gemini man by accident. If that is the case, be more careful in the future. Watch what you say and try to avoid making the same insensitive comments in the future.

If you hurt your Gemini out of frustration, try to think of better ways to deal with that frustration. Your Gemini man will understand if you need some time alone to calm down and would prefer you do that instead of lashing out.

If you constantly hurt your Gemini man and never seem to change your behavior, he’ll get sick of it eventually. When a Gemini man is done with you because you keep hurting him, that’s it. He’ll stop giving you second chances.