10 Signs a Gemini Man is Ready to Commit

A Gemini man’s commitment issues stem from both fear of losing out on a better prospect and also fear of losing his independence. He is also notorious for becoming bored easily.

He may start to get serious in a relationship and then panic and seek a new relationship just to test himself. A Gemini man can show signs of commitment, but it takes a long time.

You’ve got to understand his personality in order to know if a Gemini man is showing signs of commitment. His signals can seem subtle at first.

1. He Distances from His Ex

If you’re wondering how to know if a Gemini man is playing you, you’ve got to watch very carefully. He may show you signals that are easily overlooked. A complication is his timing. He may take a year to make moves you expected him to make after a few months.

One example of this is when a Gemini man begins to distance himself from his ex. You may expect him to do this as soon as he falls in love with you, but he won’t. A Gemini man holds all friendships dear. This includes friendships with his exes. He never wants to cut ties with anyone from his past.

A Gemini man won’t drop his ex from social media when you ask him to, even if you make the case for how awkward it makes you feel. Yet the closer he gets to you, the more he will put barriers between himself and his ex. Even if they are still friends.

He may talk about her less, or communicate with her less. He may delete her off of some of his social media platforms. These may seem like small steps he’s making, but for a Gemini man this is actually a very big deal.

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2. He Closes Dating Site Accounts

When a Gemini man’s not interested in commitment, he will continue to date and flirt with other women. Yet when he’s serious about you and ready for commitment, he’ll close down his dating site accounts.

When he starts to deactivate his profiles on various dating websites, it is a good sign for your relationship with a Gemini man. When he is in love with you but not ready to make a commitment to you, a Gemini man will keep some of his profiles active.

He’ll want to keep his options open. This relates to a Gemini man’s fear of missing out. This can damage his relationships long before he has a chance to make a commitment because he triggers his partner’s insecurities.

Yet if you’re able to be patient and wait for him to make up his mind, a Gemini man will eventually make it worth your effort. He’ll shut down his dating profiles and make it clear he’s only committing to you.

3. He Talks About Marriage

How does a Gemini man express love? This is a tricky issue for a Gemini man. He is primarily intellectual. He has deeper feelings but he usually avoids acknowledging them. When a Gemini man is in love with you, he’ll talk about his ideas and opinions regarding the relationships.

Occasionally he may speak about feelings but when he does, he’s more comfortable citing poetry or quoting songs and movies than he is coming up with his own words to explain how he feels. When he’s ready to commit, he will start to talk about his plans for marriage.

A Gemini man who is ready to settle down will talk about marriage hypothetically at first and then will start to speak about marriage in more concrete terms. He may start to plan out loud about his ideal wedding or the ideal time to get married, for example.

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4. He Plans to Move In

Among the signs a Gemini man is in love with you, he will show his eagerness to commit by talking about future plans together. One example of this is when he talks about his plans to move in with you or to live together.

He’ll start to talk about what it would be like to have a place with you. He may start looking at real estate listings. He may drop hints about wanting you to move in with him. A Gemini man may also talk about what it would be like if he were to wake up with you every morning.

Even if he is still speaking in vague terms, a Gemini man who talks about living together is showing you that he is getting ready for a stronger commitment. He’s showing you that the relationship is more serious now.

5. He Stops Flirting with Others

If you’re wondering how to get a Gemini man to chase you, you’ve got to give him ample space. He needs enough breathing room to not feel stifled. Giving him time away from you can help to ensure that he misses you.

When he’s serious about you, a Gemini man will make another subtle but significant change. He’ll tone down his flirtation with others. Gemini men are often flirty as a matter of course. Even if he is not romantically interested in someone, he’ll flirt in an effort to be friendly or funny.

Yet the more he makes his commitment to you, the less he will joke with and tease other women. He’ll become more mindful of his communication and may stop taking a flirty tone when he talks to or texts with his friends.

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6. He Initiates Contact More

If you want to know how to get a Gemini man to open up, you may be aiming for the wrong target. Gemini men seldom open up about their deeper feelings. Rather than trying to pull him toward a form of communication with which he is naturally uncomfortable, it is far better to look for milestones he is likely to make.

For example, when a Gemini man starts to make contact with you more it is a good sign he is getting ready for commitment. This can involve texting you first or texting more frequently. A Gemini man who texts more consistently, even if he isn’t talking about his feelings, is showing stronger commitment.

This is a positive sign and should be taken as a signal that a Gemini man is serious about the relationship. When he checks in with you daily or contacts you more often throughout the day, it is a sign he is really interested in becoming more serious.

7. He Introduces You to Family

If you’re wondering how to make a Gemini man think about you more often, this is easy to do because his mind is usually overactive. A Gemini man who finds you interesting and intriguing will see you as a puzzle that he can’t help obsessing over.

One of the signs a Gemini man is really ready to commit is when he brings you into his inner circle. When he introduces you to his closest friends, it is a good sign. Even better, when he introduces you to family, you know your Gemini man is ready to commit.

He saves family as a last frontier and won’t introduce you to his siblings, cousins or parents unless he’s really ready to get serious about the relationship with you. He may date a lot of women and he doesn’t bother to introduce everyone to his family.

When he invites you to a family gathering, assume he’s making a commitment. A Gemini man who introduces you to his family is signaling that you have a special status in his life. He’s also signaling that he trusts you on a much deeper level.

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8. He Invites You to Travel

When you see signs a Gemini man is attracted to you, you may feel you’ve reached solid ground in the relationship. This is not always the case, however. Gemini men can fully fall in love with a woman and still resist commitment.

When a Gemini man invites you to travel with him, he is showing you that he is serious about commitment in the relationship. A Gemini man who wants to initiate a vacation with you is showing you that he is serious about you.

Travel time is valuable to a Gemini man. When he invites you to travel with him, he is signaling that he wants to share these important experiences because you are a priority in his life. This may seem innocent but it is actually an important sign he’s ready to commit.

9. He Shows Affection in Public

You may think one of the signs a Gemini man doesn’t like you is that he brushes off affection in public. However, Gemini men aren’t always into public displays of affection, even when they are in love. If a Gemini man is in love with you he may prefer to be discreet.

When a Gemini man starts to show more affection such as hugging you or kissing you in public, it is a sign that he is becoming more serious about you and is ready to make a commitment.

When a Gemini man shows affection in public, he’s sending a signal to the public that he’s with you. This is his own way of openly affirming how important the relationship is to him and is a sign to not overlook.

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10. He Updates His Status

One of the more direct and obvious signs a Gemini man is ready to commit to you is when he updates his status on social media. When he changes his status from “single” or “it’s complicated,” to “in a relationship,” it is a sign he is committing to the relationship.

When a Gemini man updates his status to reflect that he is in a relationship, especially if he mentions you specifically by name. A Gemini man who changes his social media status is showing a willingness to commit to you.

You can rest assured that a Gemini man is ready to commit to you when he shows the virtual world that he is in a relationship. His social media presence is as significant as his real life, if not more. So an announcement made through social media carries weight for a Gemini man.