Sun Opposite Eros: Objectification & Infatuation

You may suppress your sexual desires when the Sun is opposite Chiron. Your sense of self doesn’t align with your erotic desire.

You may seem clean-cut and modest but you have a kinky nature. This aspect can awaken desires that clash with your personality.

You may hinder your attraction out of fear of rejection. But with effort, you can work through inhibitions.

Natal

The Sun opposite Eros in the Natal Chart creates a challenge between how you see yourself and your sexual desires. Your erotic tastes don’t match your personality.

You may shock partners and love interests by expressing sexual interests that don’t fit your aesthetic. Your strengths and unique personality lead people to assume they understand your sexual needs.

But you have hidden erotic desires. You are aroused by exploring aspects of your fantasies and imagining being someone else in bed. You may enjoy role play that helps you experiment with different identities.

Yet before you can experiment with your sexual expression, you must come face to face with your sexual interests. You deny your attraction and may suppress your desires.

But in the bedroom, you can become a different person. If you are quiet and meek, your sexual needs involve being passionate and loud. You can shock others by being dominant in the bedroom because this doesn’t fit your identity.

You may fear exploring your sexuality because you are worried about being overwhelmed by characteristics that don’t align with your personality. You can be ashamed of your erotic desires and you try to hide who you are.

But when you embrace your unconventional fantasies, you can become integrated. You learn to appreciate your unique strengths and become proud of your sexual desires.

Eros sextile the Natal Sun can make you open and expressive regarding your sexual interests. You are confident in your fantasies and feel no shame sharing your obsessions.

Yet, the Sun and Eros in opposition can make you embarrassed about your sexual desires. You may stifle your creativity and avoid exploring your fetishes out of fear of rejection.

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Transit

The Sun opposite Eros in a Transit Chart triggers your desire to express your sexual nature but challenges your confidence. You may feel unable to experiment with your desires.

Your sexual fantasies clash with your self-image. With effort, you can find ways to make peace with your sexuality and embrace your erotic desires. You may be aroused by unusual and taboo situations.

You face sexual frustration during this transit. Although you feel inhibited, this can be an important time to work through fear and anxieties. You can show your sexual nature if you work to build your self-esteem.

This transit brings out discrepancies between your creative instincts and desires for pleasure. You may want to lose yourself in a sexual encounter and fantasize about exploring different traits.

But this can be a significant time for growth and acceptance. You can work through restrictions and limitations to show your sexual interests with confidence.

If the Sun’s placement is opposite of Eros in a Natal Chart, this is an ideal time to discover latent sexual desires. You may be aroused by something shocking that doesn’t seem characteristic to you.

Eros conjunct Pluto gives you powerful sexual chemistry. This is an ideal placement for an intense, attractive personality. But if the Sun is opposite Eros, you may struggle between your desire for power in the bedroom and your desire for authenticity.

Eros trine Jupiter can uplift and expand your sexual repertoire. You may become more confident in your sexual nature thanks to Jupiter’s help. But Sun opposite Eros can block you from showing your seductive side.

Synastry

The Sun opposite Eros in a Synastry Chart indicates a partnership based on sexual friction. Though the Sun opposite Eros can indicate rejection of your sexual fantasies, in a Synastry Chart, this can be an exciting placement.

The Sun individual brings excitement and passion to the relationship. They are a source of inspiration and encourage their partner to be true to themselves.

The Sun partner is attracted to the Eros partner because they are different. They can be obsessed with learning what makes their partner tick. The Sun partner finds empowerment and fulfillment because the Eros person challenges them.

The Sun opposite Eros in a Synastry Chart ignites passion between these partners. The Eros partner brings sexual excitement to the relationship. They may objectify some aspect of their partner’s personality.

They find the empowerment and confidence they need to accept their personality and quirky desires. The Eros person may learn to appreciate their strengths because of the Sun partner’s influence.

The Sun partner learns to explore pleasure and sensuality because of their Eros partner’s influence. The pair encourage each other to push boundaries in the bedroom.

Eros conjunct the Sun in synastry aligns one partner’s sexual desires and another’s sense of identity. They can openly express desires and feel no pressure to stifle their fetishes.

But when the Sun and Eros are opposite, the partners may see each other as exotic. They are attracted to each other because of differences between their sexual and individualistic nature.

Eros trine the Sun in Synastry Charts creates a lucky flow of sexual chemistry. The partners fulfill each other’s needs and feel confident in their connection. However, the opposition challenges the partners to be honest about their sexual interests.

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Composite

Sun opposite Eros in a Composite Chart indicates a couple obsessed with each other. The pair challenges each other yet can’t get enough of each other’s unique traits.

The tension between them adds to their sexual chemistry. They may have a secret love affair or a taboo relationship. They push each other to explore their inhibitions.

The pair can be sexually attracted to each other based on a fixation with some unusual aspect of their personality. They may see some aspect of their partnership that is hidden from the public.

The couple may suppress their desires and dance around their magnetic sexual tension. They don’t easily align with each other but can’t forget each other.

The relationship encourages both partners to experiment with sexual interests that clash with their outer personalities. They are infatuated with role-play and may hide part of their authentic nature to satisfy each other’s desires.

The couple may suppress their strengths and authentic gifts to maintain an image that satisfies each other. They must be careful to avoid alienating or silencing each other.

Eros square Mercury can make the couple aroused by arguments and disagreements. But the Sun opposite Eros causes friction between the partner’s ego and the other partner’s playful desires.

They arouse each other but may be ashamed of some aspect of their attraction. They avoid or stifle their sexual feelings until they are certain they can trust each other.

Solar Return

The Sun opposite Eros in a Solar Return Chart makes this coming year a time of tension and sexual discovery. You may be frustrated because you are hiding some aspect of your nature.

Stifling your identity is no longer acceptable this year. You face backlash for keeping your obsessions a secret. You must confront your desires and find taboo situations arousing.

A secret fascination comes to light and you must face the consequences of hiding your sexual interests initially. If you work through insecurities you can come to embrace your sexuality.

You must find the balance between rejecting your authentic nature and experimenting with sexual fantasies that involve exploring different facets of your identity.

You may be intrigued by role-play and pretending to be someone you are not. Be careful not to lose sight of who you are as you explore playful sexual scenarios.

This is a challenging year to find ways to express yourself sexually. You lack the confidence to ask for what you want. You may have unique desires that are left unfulfilled.

With effort, you can attract an exciting and fulfilling sexual relationship. You may find creative ways to adapt to your sexual interests. An obsession helps you own different aspects of your personality.

Eros conjunct with the Moon highlights your sexual desires and gives you a nurturing and intuitive approach to sexuality. But if these planets are opposite the Sun, ego issues stand in your way.

Eros trine Saturn can make you aroused by intentionally restricting your sexual options. Yet that is not the same as the Sun opposite Eros. The Sun opposite Eros makes you inhibited sexually by circumstance, not preference.

Eros conjunct Jupiter can make you aroused by hedonistic desires. The Sun opposite Eros can bring challenges and insecurities to the surface, but Jupiter overrules these challenges and helps you express your sexual nature.