Mercury quincunx the Ascendant creates a disconnect between the mind and one’s image.
There can be difficulty expressing intellect or coming across as eloquent. It might feel like the mind is blocked in some way, and intelligence will not be conveyed accurately.
What does Mercury quincunx the Ascendant mean? This aspect causes tension between intellect, communication, and the impressions a person makes.
A person may be unable to perceive how they come across. They likely think of themselves as being a certain way, but that does not align with how they appear to others.
Couples with this quincunx in their charts might struggle to relay ideas to one another. People with it might be insecure about their intelligence, especially if they cannot express it and others cannot perceive it the way they do.
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Natal
Mercury quincunx the Ascendant in a chart can create communication issues and challenges when making a first impression on others. Sometimes, a person may be overly opinionated or brash. Other times, they might be too closed off for others to get a good read on them.
People with this aspect in their charts can also be insecure about expressing themselves and connecting with others. If they frequently make bad impressions on others, that will rationalize this insecurity.
If Mercury quincunx the Ascendant is in your Natal Chart, you may have trouble properly conveying your confidence, intelligence, or inner thoughts.
You might be overly confident in things you don’t know a lot about. You may misrepresent your knowledge or skills. You may not seem as insecure as you are and may come across as arrogant instead.
You may express Mercury’s overly talkative, nervous side. Despite talking so much, you might not make sense to others. You may have frequent misunderstandings, or others might think you dominate conversations when that’s not your intention.
You might think of yourself as intelligent, but you may not come across that way. This can be frustrating and result in you lashing out or overcompensating for not making the impression you want to make.
To work through this quincunx, you must be more mindful and pay more attention when talking to others, especially new people. Don’t let your mind wander or your emotions control you.
Think through your words carefully before speaking. If you’re nervous, say that! Others will understand if they know you’re shy or anxious around new people.
Be sure to listen to others as well. They can be far more forgiving of misunderstandings or awkward encounters if you try to listen to them and engage with what they’re talking about.
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Transit
Mercury quincunx the Ascendant during a transit typically indicates that you will have issues expressing your ideas during this time. You won’t come across how you want to and will experience frustration.
If Mercury transits your natal Ascendant, you may feel like the things you say and think aren’t aligned. You might change your mind about something but be unable to articulate that or be embarrassed to admit that you did so.
If the Ascendant transits your natal Mercury, you might feel restless during this time. You may speak more than usual, have a nervous communication style, or even become combative. You likely won’t want to come across this way, though.
The Mercury-Ascendant quincunx can cause a disconnect between how something sounds in your head and how it sounds to other people. You may experience misunderstandings or conflict during this time because of that.
Sometimes, miscommunications will be caused by you intentionally experimenting with different communication styles. You may also be trying to talk about ideas you don’t have a solid grasp on yet.
No matter how hard you try during this time, you may still make a bad impression, have trouble communicating, or not come across the way you intend. Be patient with yourself and others, and don’t get too frustrated.
Try getting your thoughts out in writing or working through them with a trusted friend before conveying them to others. Don’t be tempted to communicate in a way you normally don’t because that won’t go over well during this time.
Physical activity, meditation, or creative expression might help if you feel restless or nervous. If you’re upset about making bad first impressions, try to pick yourself back up! You didn’t necessarily miss your chance. You can correct that impression once this transit is over.
Synastry
Mercury quincunx the Ascendant in synastry can create tension within a relationship due to an inability to truly understand one another. These two don’t always perceive each other in a flattering way and might have misconceptions about each other.
The Mercury and the Ascendant partners have difficulty reading one another. The Ascendant partner might read too much into what the Mercury partner says and hear things that aren’t there. The Mercury partner might read too much into the Ascendant partner’s actions.
These two won’t always understand each other’s intentions, which will create further conflict. The potential for constant misunderstandings is one of the Mercury quincunx Ascendant cons.
The Mercury partner might feel the way the Ascendant partner appears to others isn’t who they are, which will frustrate and confuse them. If the Mercury partner tries to communicate this, the Ascendant partner will likely become offended.
These two have to learn to be patient. If this couple has a misunderstanding, they should take a breath and think things through before reacting with frustration.
If one partner feels the other has bad intentions with something they say or do, they should reflect on why they believe that.
By working to understand each other, these two can grow as individuals. They can learn to see the good in others, even if they’re different and they don’t understand them immediately. This potential for growth is one of the Mercury quincunx Ascendant pros.
These two must work together to communicate more effectively and understand one another. If there is a disconnect in their perception of each other, they must examine why that’s happening.
These two can develop deep emotional and intellectual bonds when they understand one another more. They will find that they are much happier when they communicate effectively and see the best in each other.
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Composite
Mercury quincunx the Ascendant in a Composite Chart typically indicates that a couple struggles with communication styles and how they appear to others.
Sometimes, this relationship is not as it seems. Other people may get a first impression of how this couple functions together, but that’s likely not how they are once you get to know the two of them.
This couple sometimes believes they are more different than they are. They likely have many things in common and might agree on core values and critical issues, but they can’t always communicate in a way that makes them see how alike they are.
Each partner might feel connected to the other but may be confused about why that is the case. They might have similar interests or be intelligent in similar ways. On some level, they can see that. They don’t always consciously understand that, though.
These two can discover the true power of their intellectual bond when they work on understanding one another. They should determine how their communication styles differ and try to meet in the middle to communicate more effectively.
Once they know how to communicate better, they will see they’re more alike than they initially thought. They’ll be able to interact more authentically.
This couple should share their ideas and be open-minded. When they genuinely disagree, they should still listen to and learn from each other. They can still bond even when they don’t see eye-to-eye.
A couple will develop a stronger bond when they work through this quincunx. They will get closer to having a solid, authentic connection that allows them both to learn and grow.
Solar Return
Mercury quincunx the Ascendant during a solar return typically indicates that you will struggle with your thoughts and how you view yourself.
You may experience conflict in how you perceive yourself in the upcoming year. You might have always thought of yourself as a particular type of person, but something will cause you to question that.
You might meet someone who changes your perception of yourself in the upcoming year. They may comment on your personality or how they view you, and you’ll wonder how they came to that conclusion.
Mercury inconjunct the Ascendant turning up in a Solar Return Chart can mean you’re in for a rough year. You may find yourself getting into more frequent arguments or having all kinds of miscommunications with people.
These miscommunications may affect your relationships, especially if your perception of what is happening is off. You might get into further arguments because of how you react when someone doesn’t understand you, or you may irrationally react when you don’t understand them.
The upcoming year will frustrate you and the people around you if you’re not careful. To get through this year and avoid constant conflict, you must learn to slow down and be patient.
If others don’t view you the way you view yourself, you must be okay with that. It’s challenging to have an accurate, unbiased view of yourself no matter what you do.
Sometimes, others genuinely have the wrong idea, but you can’t let that get to you.
Take up meditation in the upcoming year and learn to walk away from a conversation before it becomes an argument. Take breaks and let yourself calm down.
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